When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 26 August 2010: I agree with tennistar, keep texting, I personally prefer calls from a guy, it speaks stronger of him, texting to me is a wussy way out. But don't over do it. Just a simple how are you, how you feeling just called to say hello.
Don't ask her when... (read in full...)
I don't want to break his heart so how do I leave him?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months. He is an amazing person with a few unique quirks that I don't mind at all. The problem is that even though we are very similar, able to communicate, find compromise and are willing to work at makin...
A. 25 August 2010: I already started. I didn't really want to go exercise with him tonight, he got very sad because I made myself unavailable for another 2 days after tonight.
I will still however help his aunt tomorrow, because I believe it's a good thing to do. I... (read in full...)
I want to kiss my bestfriend!!
Q. My best (girl) friend and I are extremely close. We talk about everything. I absolutely love her in a best friend way...but the problem is that I think she loves me in a different way. When we hug she pushes her boobs up against me and I can feel ...
A. 25 August 2010: I think so. If you are saying that she turns you on, than you may not be as straight as you may think.
Keep in mind that perhaps it's better to talk it over before making any moves that may ruin the friendship. Some girls are more affectio... (read in full...)
I don't want to break his heart so how do I leave him?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months. He is an amazing person with a few unique quirks that I don't mind at all. The problem is that even though we are very similar, able to communicate, find compromise and are willing to work at makin...
A. 24 August 2010: The main reason why I'm thinking about leaving the relationship is because I don't see that he is standing up to his family in my defense.
He does not tell them about his involvement with me because he doesn't want to hear "shit" from them abo... (read in full...)
Really like this girl but she says the long distance is too much against us. What can I do?
Q. I know this is very long but I'd REALLY appreciate it if you helped me out. Thanks! (we're both 16 years old, both play trumpet, go to diff schools, parents know each other, live 25 mins away) So me and this girl met at a Lions Band tryout last N...
A. 24 August 2010: Long distance relationships are very difficult.
My suggestion would be for you to talk and find out how you feel about each other.
Please understand her point of view that it's hard to be in a relationship when the one you care about is far away... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: I guess it bothers you because you have some feelings for her, but if you respect her new husband, you have to let those feelings cool down.
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Am I expecting too much, too soon?
Q. Am I expecting too much too soon?? I just met this guy less than a month ago....when he first got my number he texted me non stop....that night we hung out for a couple hours....the next morning he sent me a text saying good morning honey an...
A. 24 August 2010: He doesn't seem to be serious about pursuing you.
It seems if you are there, you are there, if not, not a big deal either.
He doesn't put you as an important person in his life, so why should you stick around?
If you think you deserve to be an... (read in full...)
Stop looking and it will happen???
Q. Good evening, Dear Cupid Community: My problem is that I'm too "friendly". Or it seems this way. Girls always look at me as a friend. I ask you this: Who you rather date somebody you helps you with you problems or talks to you often, and cares ab...
A. 24 August 2010: The reason why that "Stop looking, you'll find" saying works is because when you are looking, you look too desperate and people reject you because of that.
No girl wants a guy who is desperate to date her, and vice versa. If a girl came around a... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant with his child, but he has a girlfriend.
Q. I am dating this man for 11 months and am 8 months pregnant with his child i know he have a girlfriend and they have a 5 year old daughter but i want him to live here and be with me and our child what can i do? ...
A. 24 August 2010: You are having an affair with a man who is already committed to someone else.
How does he feel? Did he promise to help you support and raise the child?
If he is still with his girlfriend, doesn't that mean that he does not want to build a ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything for the man I used to love.
Q. Hey there, I've been dating a guy for about two years now, and we've been engaged for one year and a few months. We were very happy when we first met each other and continued to be happy for the first year; however, now that I'm in college for m...
A. 24 August 2010: I congratulate you Brian for being anonymous.
I wouldn't worry about your family. In the end they only want to see you happy, if you come to them and tell them that you are not happy with Brandon, and you are not willing to spend your future bein... (read in full...)
When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 24 August 2010: She does need time to get her life together. And although you could provide support, I think it's better for her to get a handle on her life on her own. She would benefit from that more. In terms of anniversary, I don't think you guys are dating ... (read in full...)
He's coming back at all hours, do I have trust issues?
Q. i've been in a 3 year relationship with this guy. while dating, we hung out, had fun, and would come in late or not at all. now, we reside with one another, have children together, and he continues to do the same thing minus not coming in. in a past ...
A. 24 August 2010: Just to verify, now you live together and have children, but he still goes out without you and comes home at 3,4am?
Do you not think that this is inappropriate?
I think it's ok to go out without your partner but have the decency to come ... (read in full...)
Should chance calling him?
Q. my ex told me he had a girl visiting for a few months and she will be going home once the visa is up. We spoke about this June 11th or so and he said 2 and a half months she will be gone so its not a permanent thing. Has it been two and a half m...
A. 24 August 2010: I think you want to hear something that you yourself know is not the reality.
I believe that even though your heart wants him, your logic is telling you that you should not be with him. Otherwise you would not ask: "Any thoughts besides forg... (read in full...)
Younger woman messing with my head!
Q. Ok here is the deal. I am older than this lady, yet I don't feel that way at all on the inside (and people tell me that I look younger than I am, and when I work out alot, I can easily pass for someone in their 20s). Ok, well, we have been friends, ...
A. 24 August 2010: Original Poster you are a trip. Just reading your posts was entertaining. It is hard for you to explain who you are because I believe you don't know yourself. You are a young soul trapped in an aging body. I know a few of your kind, and I have... (read in full...)
16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!
Q. alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all ...
A. 24 August 2010: Please do not become pregnant to fill a void in your life. This is the wrong reason to bring a child into this world.
When you are not financially able to support a child and yourself, you will end up making your life too difficult to enjoy th... (read in full...)
Was the advice good, did I do the right thing? Will I hear from him again?
Q. Ok, so I have had an on-again, off-again relationship with this guy. After dating and breaking up we tried being friends....I'm sure you can all figure out the complications that went along with that. We're good friends, when we both make the...
A. 24 August 2010: I think you did the right thing. Even if it hurts for you to do that, and it seems harsh, you said it right: you stood up for your honor, and you let him know that you deserve respect.
I believe the only time an ex can be friends is when neither ... (read in full...)
Role play issues
Q. When my partner and i 1st met we discussed role play. He then asked me to be his daughters school mate who called when he was alone. You can imagine then rest,i know he got the idea from a porn film but i find the whole thing find disturbing. ...
A. 24 August 2010: I guess I would find that role play request a bit disturbing as well. I would worry that he has some issues with desiring underage girls.
How did you feel playing that role? Would you be able to talk to him about it? To let him know that this par... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us? or is he just trying to wean himself off me?
Q. Not Sure what to think , We had been dating for almost three years when we broke up 3.5 weeks ago. He had decided he wasn't ready for a commitment, one because he was in major debt and two because at 36 had to move back home with his parents ...
A. 24 August 2010: I guess that's your answer. He probably feels he is not worthy of being with you because by being with you he does not feel good about himself, and that's why he is pushing you away.
I am not sure if there is anything you can do to change that.
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Confused Attractions
Q. I told a girl that I liked her. She rejected me. We became close friends and my feelings died down. However she came back to me months later and said that she has feelings for me now, but she is confused as to whether she does or not. Are her ...
A. 23 August 2010: I agree with the CaringGuy. In your age range girls like attention, and maybe because she was not getting the kind of attention you were giving her from other guys, she came back to you.
If she was to tell you that it is you that she wants, i... (read in full...)
How can I get him back? I miss him a lot!
Q. Me and my bf broke a week ago and we were together for 2 years! Im heartbroken to say the least. When we broke up he said he hopes before summer is over we can get some lunch together. but why? and we didnt talk until I texted him three days ago ...
A. 23 August 2010: Many people have told me that in order for a relationship to last, a man has to love his woman more than she loves him. Because men are not as consistent and devoted as women are. A woman can get used to her man, but a man will look elsewhere if he ... (read in full...)
Please, let lonely, single virgins suffer in silence!
Q. I am not writing a question but posting some thoughts that I have had on my mind in regards to all of the positive responses that readers post on this website, especially in regards to people being depressed, single, virgins well into their adult ...
A. 23 August 2010: I have a few questions for you, and I beg you to please answer them.
You've listed the material things you have accomplished, but they don't really let me know who you are as a person.
Who are you? What do you like? What makes you smile?
Why... (read in full...)
Is there a future for us? or is he just trying to wean himself off me?
Q. Not Sure what to think , We had been dating for almost three years when we broke up 3.5 weeks ago. He had decided he wasn't ready for a commitment, one because he was in major debt and two because at 36 had to move back home with his parents ...
A. 23 August 2010: Are you looking for a commitment? Would you want to keep being with him even though he cannot offer you any? Just because you enjoy his company?
If your answer is yes, then I don't understand why he chose to end the relationship.
I know that me... (read in full...)
Opinions on what true love is?
Q. what is true love?...
A. 21 August 2010: For me it's a feeling that I'm the only one this man is seeing even if he's in a room full of beautiful women. When I'm sitting down chatting with my girlfriends and I look over at him, our eyes meet, and he just looks straight into my eyes, while ... (read in full...)
My ex is always on my mind and I want him back!
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 15 months i always used to finish him because i was scared of getting hurt because of my past relationships, he used to run back everytime an we would be fine the next day.. He used to say he would never let me go i ...
A. 21 August 2010: You have a lesson to learn from this. You kept pushing him away because you were scared of getting hurt. Then one day he got tired of being pushed away and so he left. If he doesn't want to come back and he is ignoring you, let him go. But make sur... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: I have some pictures of my ex-boyfriends that I still keep simply because they were part of my life, each one taught me something and made me a better person. I always had amicable break ups and stay in touch with some of the guys I dated in the ... (read in full...)
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