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*hanice
writes:When my partner and i 1st met we discussed role play. He then asked me to be his daughters school mate who called when he was alone. You can imagine then rest,i know he got the idea from a porn film but i find the whole thing find disturbing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): I think he gets excited by this little girl. If I were you I would want to explore this issue explicitly to get at his motivation behind it since you think his request has made his behaviour suspect as it may be deviant. I understand role playing and playing an adult-nurse, doctor, stewardess, cop but his daughter's friend? Ewww! My spidey sense is tingling.
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reader, Chanice +, writes (24 August 2010):
Chanice is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your replies,this problem has been going on for 3 years now. I didnt go along with it go was shocked as we had just met & know all he had in head was the porn film. I've tried talking about it but he cant see a problem anyway thanks all lol
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reader, person12345  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 Well obviously you don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. But role playing can be a fun healthy way to add some spice to a relationship. Why not share one of your own with him to act out as well?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 When you ask for role playing you have to expect something out far off the ordinary. Of course the thought has crossed his mine but only in role play with you would he ever act on it. Everyone has thoughts that would disturb the world but so few actually act on them. Its all in harmless fun.
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reader, Asherah  +, writes (24 August 2010):
If it disturbs you, don't do it. If he loves you and is of normal mental health, he'll be able to keep it in his head. Personally I don't think I'd want to be with a guy who wanted to act out stuff like that, but we're all different in what we find accceptable in a partner. Let him know how you feel about it and if he's a good guy, he'll drop it.
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I guess I would find that role play request a bit disturbing as well. I would worry that he has some issues with desiring underage girls.
How did you feel playing that role? Would you be able to talk to him about it? To let him know that this particular game makes you uncomfortable?
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reader, AgonyAuntJ +, writes (24 August 2010):
 what is the actual question you want to ask exactly???
- AAJ.
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