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*oco123
writes:Hey i need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and i've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and im not sure if he knows i like him. I DO NOT want them to be together, But i can see it coming.. :( I don't want to be really sad, because if they go out i KNOW i WILL be. I just Don't want to go thru that.Does anyone have any advise? please and thank u! :)
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reader, alohanikkiii +, writes (13 February 2009):
Maybe you could try talking to your friend and say that you do have feelings for this guy. If you two are such good friends, then maybe she'll tell the guy that you two need to talk or either they'll just lay low for a while and respect the friendship you three share rather than making it awkward and having one friend left out.
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reader, anoms  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 sorry but he's made his choice, are you saying you would be happier if he left your best friend and went out with you, i sense jealousy not love, dont ruin it for your best friend and dont try to entice him when shes not around it will end in disaster for everybody, so please leave it be for your own sake. gudluk.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 February 2009):
 My advice is to gather your courage and ask your friend out before he asks your friend out. If he turns you down, then well, you did your best, and you have no regrets.
Of course, it might make it hard to be around him after that, so you have to weigh the consequences. But one thing is sure: if he likes her, and she likes him, you won't be able to prevent their going out together. If you try, you'll just end up losing both of them.
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