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My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!

Q.   My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...

A.   15 September 2010: Normal is such a relative term. Just enjoy the show and don't ask questions!... (read in full...)

Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together

Q.   Ok so my boyfriend of one year said that he wants us to take a break. He used to be head over heels in love with me, even so much as saying that he could see me as his wife. But this past summer was extremely difficult for the both of us and I said ...

A.   8 September 2010: So, in the heat of the argument, what really stupid something did you say?... (read in full...)

Did he like the bj?

Q.   I've given my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of times before but a couple of days ago I noticed that while i was doing that he had his eyes closed and he seemed relax.could this mean that he liked it? how can i give him a good blowjob?...

A.   6 September 2010: I've always been grateful when any girl will do oral. Suck hard, twist and rotate, use your hands. Ask him what feels good, try to read his reactions to what you do. ... (read in full...)

Can an adoptive mother breast feed an infant?

Q.   Hello, I've got a question for the aunts, can an adoptive mother still breast feed an infant? If so how?...

A.   22 August 2010: It seems crazy, but it is possible. My wife and I adopted our son two years ago and were shocked when the nurse asked if my wife was going to breast feed. Taking Reglan can apparently help with milk production.... (read in full...)

We're teenagers and we really want to have a baby!

Q.   Hi :) My boyfriend and I realllyyyyy want a baby!! We've been trying for about 2 months and it doesn't seem to work. Everyone says I'm too young for a baby, but I know this is what we want. I love my boyfriend to death, and we want a baby and ...

A.   10 August 2010: My wife and I adopted our son 2 years ago. The biologic parents (she was 16 and he was 17) had second thoughts when it came time to sign. They didn't have a car seat let alone an automobile. Neither one had a driver's license. If they had ... (read in full...)

Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?

Q.   Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...

A.   8 August 2010: Why in the hell would you care what a skank who would push a guy into the stall of the men's room, get on her knees IN A MENS ROOM, unzip his pants and possibly take his penis in her mouth thinks about anything? You should be relieved that such a ... (read in full...)

He's never lasted longer than 5 minutes! Ever!

Q.   My fiance and I have been dating for almost three years. We've been having sex for more then a year and he's still having troubles lasting [as in we've never had sex for more then five minutes, ever!]! WE both lost our virginity to each other and ...

A.   28 June 2010: There are other ways to pleasure a woman than through vaginal intercourse. I've heard that most women don't achieve orgasms through straightforward sex, anyway. Does he just roll over and go to sleep once he's done? I too am an "easy to please ... (read in full...)

Should I be mad?

Q.   My wife of 10 years was texting with her friend last week. Her friend was going to a party at the home of my wifes ex boyfriend. My wife and I are both white and her friend and ex are African American. She told me about the party but when I read ...

A.   19 June 2010: Absolutely you should be mad.... (read in full...)

My sex drive is way up!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1.5 years and have a great sex life, usually 6-8 times a week and we both are always satisfied. Neither of us masturbate because it feels better when we do have sex. Lately though, my sex drive has ...

A.   9 June 2010: Don't ask questions. (I'm sure your boyfriend isn't.) Just tell him "You're welcome!" Hopefully he can keep up, but I'm not sure. And yes this is what it is like to be a guy. ... (read in full...)

Part 4: pondering frequency of sex in marriage

Q.   Should married couples really be having frequent sex if they actually want to enjoy the sex? I hear this advice for married couples all the time: "Make sure to keep the sex spicy and frequent." But this has always seemed like a bad idea to me. ...

A.   9 June 2010:  Wives have to walk a very fine line. They dangle the carrot at just the right distance to keep you on the line. Too much sex and you get bored with the same old same old, not enough and you seek other alternatives. ... (read in full...)

Please put my mind at rest!

Q.   Okay, so my girlfriend and i were messing around. we don't believe in having sex, however the other day she gave me a handjob... and i got some on my fingers... about ten minutes later i touched her vagina.. Am i safe? Is she pregnant?...

A.   1 June 2010: No one can tell you that you are safe. I remember in school that they would tell that you would get an STD, your girlfriend would get pregnant, and it would go on your permanent record the first time you ever had sex. I can tell you that many ... (read in full...)

Is it true blowjobs taste awful?

Q.   My gf wont give me one because she says they taste awful, but could it just be because of the guy she was with before? She said he had hygiene issues so I was wondering if that could be it. Is there anything that could make it less disgusting if ...

A.   1 June 2010: If you give her enough warning, she can finish you with her hands and there is no taste involved. My first girlfriend had not intentions of ever tasting semen and insisted on a "heads up" warning. If she is willing to perform oral, you have to ... (read in full...)

What should I do to get our sex life back on track?

Q.   My boyfriend and I usually have a good sex life and If we fall into a routine will try new things (to an extent!)... But every few months he decides that I'm not putting enough effort into things (when I go on top) and he stops and lies there and ...

A.   12 May 2010: Switch tracks and find a new boyfriend. Why is it all on you? What is he doing to please you? He should be happy and flattered that a real live girl wants to satisfy him. Now he has put a great deal of pressure on you and made you insecure about ... (read in full...)

Love my boyfriend but no sex makes me want to move on

Q.   my boyfriend and i are having problems i guess you could say. we have been together for a year and a half now. we only have sex about twice a month. his first excuse was that he never wanted to cause im too pushy about it but now he says he has a ...

A.   12 May 2010: Something must be wrong with him. Most guys would love to have a woman with a strong sex-drive. The only thing I could possibly think of in his defense would be the following: How much of a production is it to get you ready? Most men can ... (read in full...)

Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?

Q.   I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...

A.   16 March 2010: Wait for her to decide if she can "give up" this new guy she's spreading her legs for? Screw her if she needs convincing. She's the one who cheated. She should be kissing your furry beanbag and begging for forgiveness. Move on. Ther are Lots ... (read in full...)

Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching

Q.   I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...

A.   23 February 2010: I watch porn and my wife is well aware of it. At least he's not going to strip clubs or massage parlors. If you are having sex twice weekly with your husband, that's great and you should be commended. We have a 2 and a 5 yr old and we are lucky ... (read in full...)

Do women remember the size of their former lover's penis?

Q.   I have been bombarded with penis enlargement emails lately. Something like 100+ a day. Hopefully I am not the only one. :) Obviously these are SPAM I know, however there are lots of products claiming to work for those less endowed. One of the ...

A.   19 February 2010: The answer is yes. But, I have wondered this myself in general due to comments from my wife shortly after we started dating. She dumped a guy to go out with me while we were in college. To this day, I don't know why she ever made the following ... (read in full...)

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