Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: You may hear this a lot and i dont mean to preach, however do you know how many times ive heard its not the right time to have a baby and that they arent ready? Then when the baby is actually there, they realize it was the perfect time? But if you ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with my sexless marriage?
Q. Alright, since my last question turned into a "what are you doing?" response page...I'll add more to my question. My wife and I have two sets of twins (11 yo girls, 7 yo boys) and we nearly have a sexless mariagge. She and I met when I was ...
A. 17 April 2012: Okay so i have a few questions for you... Are you just wondering how to cope? Or would you like to try to intiate sex and for your wife to be into it? If you are looking to try to persuade your wife to have sex with you then i would suggest that you ... (read in full...)
Am I "bi-curious" or is this just "normal" behavior?
Q. I'm 17 years old, and I have never been in a relationship, romantic or sexual, with any man or woman. I've had serious crushes on men before (one lasted for over two years), but have never had any feelings towards any women at all. I am most ...
A. 17 April 2012: In my opinion thats very normal not only for your age range but for anyone whether they have been intimate before or not. If you were to ask me, i would not say you are bi-curious however you know yourself better than anyone of us on this site. And ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: Youll have to excuse me for posting twice my phone only lets me write so many characters per post and i have more advice. Lastly get the date for your next appointment and invite him tell him you know hes busy but it would mean a lot to you if he ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: Its true that pregnancy can make you terribly irrational and things that normally you wouldnt give a second thought to suddenly get under your skin. Its possible you could have twisted his words when he said he needed to go to the gym. But i think ... (read in full...)
What do I do about an ex friend who doesn't take the hint that I don't want to be friends anymore?
Q. Hi everyone. I don't even know how to ask this, so i'll just start here. I had a friend (female) who was incredibly mean and rude to me. She hated my boyfriend and got mad at everything I've done. I've actually posted about her twice on here before. ...
A. 8 April 2012: I dont neccessarily think it will escalate into an arguement unless you let it. I would suggest telling her what you told us. Tell her that you are upset with her and you dont care for the way shes treated you or the comments shes made about your ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this?
Q. not so much of a relationship question, but I get pain 1-2 days after I have sex with my bf. It's hard work because it means I am often bent over double crying and my bf feels awful. It happens quite often and I have had a normal smear test result. ...
A. 6 April 2012: That was my question exactly. Go directly to your doctor and explain this terrible pain to your doctor give he or she every detail even if it seems insignificant.... (read in full...)
Was planning to move to be with my LDR, then found him on a dating site?!
Q. Help !!!! in a serious long distance relationship, we communicate daily,have plans of moving together, with me making the relocation,and found that my man is on a site, lied abt his age and seeking younger women..he last logged in today...in our ...
A. 6 April 2012: It sounds like you know him pretty well. Im very sorry you have to go through this but you do deserve better and you will find it.... (read in full...)
He is supposed to get to know me better, instead he adds my facebook contacts
Q. From the title of this question one could guess that I am 14, I am not, I am just baffled at guy's behavior - this guy asked me out a few times in the span of a few months, we went out twice but he didn't seem that interested so I let it go, then he ...
A. 6 April 2012: ANo, if he truly wanted to get to know you better he would have kept in contact and probably not added your friends, attractive or not. In my opinion it shows lack of commitment in persuing a friendship or relationship with you. His actions suggest ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity this way?
Q. I went out with this guy 3 years ago, the relationship ended pretty badly, but we perservered and stayed friends over the years, despite him going out with my best friend and the rest of my friends pretty much hating him. I'm don't have any real fee...
A. 6 April 2012: Starlights hit the nail on the head. Sex is much better with someone you love. I lost my virginity to someone i didnt love. The condom broke he gave me an std thank god it was treatable put me through hell then 4 months later tried to propose to me. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm just not ready for a relationship?
Q. Dear Cupid, Sometimes I feel really confused about my stance on relationships. I feel like when I see a couple I think to myself... "Hm thats really cute, must be nice to have something like that" but other times when I get asked out and go on ...
A. 6 April 2012: Only you can decide if you are ready or not. However if you feel like you are missing out on good times while in a relationships then maybe you should put dating on the back burner for now and persue what you feel your missing out on. If you really ... (read in full...)
He is supposed to get to know me better, instead he adds my facebook contacts
Q. From the title of this question one could guess that I am 14, I am not, I am just baffled at guy's behavior - this guy asked me out a few times in the span of a few months, we went out twice but he didn't seem that interested so I let it go, then he ...
A. 6 April 2012: In all fairness he did ask you out three times and you refused. It doesnt make sense that he would ask you out three more times and not be interested. Perhaps he was nervous or shy and clammed up and you mistaked it for loss of interest. My advice ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend act and react in this way? I cry and moan about him looking at porn and masterbating. Am I reacting in a way that helps or harms?
Q. ModNote: Dysthymia: neurotic depression, less severe but longer lasting bouts of / symptoms of than major depressive episodes.Experience little joy in their lives. Hi everyone, I have a very important thing I would like to discuss, does anyone k...
A. 5 April 2012: I also wanted to add not all men look at porn only a majority. I think its very important at the start of a relationship to discuss sexual needs and preferances as well as pornography usage. Hope that helps. I know i didnt give you advice that you ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend act and react in this way? I cry and moan about him looking at porn and masterbating. Am I reacting in a way that helps or harms?
Q. ModNote: Dysthymia: neurotic depression, less severe but longer lasting bouts of / symptoms of than major depressive episodes.Experience little joy in their lives. Hi everyone, I have a very important thing I would like to discuss, does anyone k...
A. 5 April 2012: Hi have no experience with your bfs medical/mental disorder however it is very clear you have a problem with it and clear that he isnt going to stop when you ask. I do have to agree with him it would bother me more to hear he feels nothing for me as ... (read in full...)
Was planning to move to be with my LDR, then found him on a dating site?!
Q. Help !!!! in a serious long distance relationship, we communicate daily,have plans of moving together, with me making the relocation,and found that my man is on a site, lied abt his age and seeking younger women..he last logged in today...in our ...
A. 5 April 2012: In my opinion i would not go. Think of it this way if you had a daugher who was in the same situation would you advise her to go? Probably not. Dont you owe yourself the same concern for your own well being? To top that off he lied about his age as ... (read in full...)
My friends tell me it's too soon to take this step
Q. Hello aunts and uncles! I'm back again for some advice. Probably here more than I should be but have BPD so its always nice to have a rational insight on what other people think. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months but have ...
A. 5 April 2012: First i want to say its great that you go to counselling. In this case because of your history and just in general i do agree with your friend that it is a bit too soon to be spending that kind of money. However it is also a good thing that you ... (read in full...)
I know I'm a lesbian but can't tell anyone, so how do I find a girlfriend?
Q. Hi. I'm 13. I haven't been asked out much but the relationships I did have didn't last long. I just don't feel attracted to guys. So now I know I'm lesbian. I know everyone says not to be embarrassed or don't pretend to be someone you're not but I ...
A. 5 April 2012: I would agree that you should wait a few years at least. You will meet someone. But for now just have fun with your friends and enjoy your life. That is just some advice, but if you want a true answer to your question i would say to wait until ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am straight, gay or bisexual!
Q. I am a 15 year old girl but I'm not sure on my sexuality. I usually get more aroused when I think about lesbians kissing but I feel more attracted to boys. When I masturbate I often do orgasm a lot quick when I'm watching or thinking about girl on ...
A. 5 April 2012: That is actually very normal at your age. Here is one way to think about it. Do you think you could kiss a girl? Then do you think you could make out with a girl and go further still? Next do you think you could also do any of it with a man? Next do ... (read in full...)
Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?
Q. Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am...
A. 5 April 2012: I have seen men that have shaved and i admit it does look like theres something missing! I dont have a problem with a bush, but i really think trimmed is the way to go. Thats just a personal opinion though. Dont shave your thighs! But if i were to ... (read in full...)
How can we get to see each other despite the distance without our parents knowing?
Q. In January I had to move schools to the town over. When I was there I became friends with this guy and we started dating March 8th then on March 12th I had to move back to the school I was at before. He was my first love and I was his we broke up ...
A. 3 April 2012: Well first off i just want to say that crying for someone every night that you met about a month ago isnt quite right. I know you are very close and in love but it seems like you are perhaps too dependent on the notion of being able to see him. On ... (read in full...)
He is dreaming about sex but our sex life is dwindling! What should I do?
Q. recently my fiance has been having sex dreams and our sex life is becoming less and less when i ask him about these sex dreams he says oh was i i wish i could remember it and laughs it off and when i confront him about our lack of sex his reply is ...
A. 3 April 2012: Does it bother you that he sells porn for a living? Have you ever discussed a career change? If you were uncomfortable with it all the while you probably should have mentioned it sooner but later is far better than never. Now about the sex dreams... ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress
Q. I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being....
A. 3 April 2012: Wow that is a mess. This very sad. Her husband is overseas fighting for his country and his own life and shes cheating with a married man at that. You have both caused a very painful situation for your spouses. I can understand that your wife hasnt ... (read in full...)
He leaves me to sleep alone, our sex life has died...all because he is up all night chatting to other women!
Q. Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.8 years. The time has gone really quickly because as they say, time flies when you are having fun! Sometime into our relationship, I realised one night he was missing from bed. He has a ...
A. 3 April 2012: I think he has more likely than not been playing much more than the sims in there. I doubt he would just rush you and write you off to play the sims. I also dont think he had sex with you that night just because he felt more comfortable since he had ... (read in full...)
I was the other woman and got dumped. How do I move on?
Q. hi, just joined this site, as i read alot of stories about being the OW. i too was the OW, for 2 years, and stupidly believed he would leave his partner, well, i was the one he dumped after she found out about us, and obviously he denied everythi...
A. 3 April 2012: It can be very difficult as people can be extremely deceptive. I used to think how on earth would someone sleep with someone whose married!? Well i know now that some people lie say they are getting divorced, others tell you horrible things about ... (read in full...)
How likely is it to get pregnant if you use condoms correctly?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we've both been wanting to have sex for awhile now but I am deathly afraid of getting preagnant and yes, we have condoms but I'm scared they'll fail and I can't get birth control because we have ...
A. 3 April 2012: Just wanted to ad that if you wanted to you can get plan b over the counter its about 65 bux but if a condom broke i think its worth it. Another poster mentioned spermicide also and that is a good birthcontrol method in addition to condoms.... (read in full...)
I think my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. What should I do?
Q. I think my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. To give you some background: My best friend (A) has been with her boyfriend (R) for about 4 years. R and my boyfriend (P) are also best friends since they were kids. This weekend I was s...
A. 3 April 2012: Well you have a few options here. You can stay out of it all together, doing this could save you relationship with your bf, and leave your friend to find out on her own. You could tell your bf that you have been snooping through his phone which ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty about taking a way out from working with this girl?
Q. Okay, so I got roped into a group project with this girl, lets call her Sarah. It was originally a single person project. You see, Sarah and I were talking and she convinced me that we should ask if we can work together on it. I honestly didn't ...
A. 1 April 2012: Absolutly. Be honest tell her and the teacher you that you want to do the project by yourself and that you already wrote the entire essay. No need to share a grade that you earned.... (read in full...)
When I say no, girlfriend ends up taking what she wants anyways
Q. So I recently went to sex store this week to buy toys for me and my girlfriend, we're lesbians. So I bought the vibrators, bullets, eggs, and dildos for us along with anal beads and lube. I told my girlfriend I'd like to use it on her during our ...
A. 1 April 2012: Have you actually sat her down and talked to her about how upset it made you when she said you couldnt use the vibrator on her yet when you tell her no about other things she does it anyways? It sounds like she doesnt really take you seriously but ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my mentor, but know nothing can come of it..he's married
Q. Dear all, I will try to be straight to it. So this is my story. I met my mentor about 4 yrs ago and we are still working together. From the onset, I felt, there was something special between us and because he is my typically my boss, I just enj...
A. 31 March 2012: I think it borders on the line of infatuation and obssession. Im sure he knows or has gotten the hint that you like him. You have to pull yourself away from him emotionally. Obviously u still have to work on the project with him. So lets focus on ... (read in full...)
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