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Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

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Question - (16 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Good news: I'll be receiving my degree within 4 months.

Bad news: I'll be moving where my future job takes me or back home until I secure a job fit for my career.

Granted, I've lived my whole life leaving and trying to make new friends. It'll be just as tough to move away, but I can live with it. However, one of those close friends I really do like. I want to spend so much time with her as I can. At the same time, I don't want to be with her because I don't really want to leave her.

It's like my senior year in high school all over again which really hit me hard. I fall hard for a girl who is a good friend only to have to leave her. I failed to ask that girl out, and I've always regretted it.

Now, there is this girl. Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010):

"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

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A male reader, 1290uk United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2010):

1290uk agony auntDefinitely. What have you got to lose?

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