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He seems interested but hasn't asked me out...

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Question - (16 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, I've been friends with this guy for quite a while and I've known him for a few years... It's only until now that we've started getting closer.

We hold hands and hug a lot, and he's even tried kissing me....But he hasn't asked me out :/ Is he just being 'friendly', or does he like me more than a friend?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010):

He is deff not just being 'friendly', I've been in the same situation. I met a guys this year, he's a Senior and im a Freshman and we talked like 24.7 and always hugged and he offered me rides home and asked to kiss and stuff, and all my friends told me he liked me but i didnt think so cause he always flirted with other girls and he always said he was just being 'friendly' and now since its the end of the yr he admitted that he liked me but I have a bf so nothing is gonna happen. So yeah he deff likes you but maybe is scared to ask you out, or is worried that it will ruin your friendship in the end. But I think you should bring it up or something. :)

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A male reader, 1290uk United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2010):

1290uk agony auntSeems like he likes you as more than a friend, but guys find it harder to move people from one area of their life to another (thus, our perpetual fear of the "Friend Zone"). Talk to him about it, force him to confront it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010):

There are two possiblities of what can happen. He could like you and wants to know if you are feeing the same as him or the second is that he wants action in my opinion. But in the end it all comes down to if you kissed him back and you have to see what happens from there whether you kissed him back or not

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2010):

If you didn't kiss him back, then he probably thinks you're not interested. So I'm afraid it's time you did a bit of running after him if you want him. He's confused enough already. If you want him, go and get him.

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