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Should I kiss my lesbian friend?

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Question - (10 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi. i have quite a complicated problem!!

my best friend has recently told me that she is a lesbian and has been having a complicated relationship secretly with one of my other friends. it was really amazing that she trusted me with such a big secret and wanted my advice.

well anyway, she is quite stressed with all of the trouble from this girl. she has been talking to me a lot and we have become very close.

so the problem is that i have started to get the urge to kiss my friend. Im not gay, im not even bisexual (i dont think) but ever since she has started talking to me about these things its made me really really curious. I have a boyfriend but just cant seem to stop thinking and wondering about my friend.

i dont know what i should do about it. i kinda want to kiss her and see what its like but then i dont want to embarrass myself or upset my friend or boyfriend.

what should i do?? i know i shouldnt kiss her but its driving me mad because i want to so badly.

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A male reader, 1290uk United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2010):

1290uk agony auntIf you want to kiss her because you find her attractive, or you're curious, talk to her about it. It's unlikely to upset her if you talk to her about it, and if you both want to, go from there. Your boyfriend may not be too happy about it, or he might love the idea if it doesn't detract from your relationship!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

talk to her, its ver natural to have urges with the opposite sex, if you have a boyfriend and decide to go with your friend, dump him first, dont cheat on him hun. The best thing you can do is think of your options and whether you are bisexual, it is normal hun, nobody can live without wondering x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

i think you could be bi-curious. its nothing bad its just a way to explore what your comfortable with. before you decide to kiss ur friend i suggest talking ur feelings out with ur boyfriend first. hes the one that could get hurt so he needs to know whats going on in your head. then if u feel confident enought alk to your friend about ur feelings. she will understand the questions going on in ur head. untill u have made the decision to talk to both of them then i wud resist the urge. i know that u might think that u cant hold off but ive been in the same situation for a few months now and its been better to wait. kissing a girl isnt really all that different from kissing a guy tbh but depending on how far you want to go depends on ur experience. good luck with ur experimentation hunny xx

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