I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 31 May 2008: You reaped what you sowed.
Now that you know what it is like to cheat and be cheated upon,
then you can start from this point and work at your relationship.
Everything is now fair and equal.
Begin a new journey together and leave the p... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Some churches or denominations follow their interpretations of the Bible,
Some churches may follow a different interpretation.
Who is right and who is wrong?
God will’s everything to happen.
Only God knows why the church have a gay ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Prejudices in the church..
This is quite a very good article.. Believe whatever you feel is right and not to impose your views or belief on others.
If your conscience say it is wrong , then it is wrong for you.
That does not mean that e... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 26 May 2008: Whether you are a gay or not , it does not matter much because according to God, we are all sinners.
If you are a gay , you sin, if you are not a gay , you sin too.
A sin is a sin and it does not differentiate whether you are a gay or not.
A... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nothing is forever or cast in stones like Moses tablet.
Today's enemies maybe tomorrow's friend.
Life is full of paradox and quirks.
Don't go to him now because he will instinctively run from you .
When he sees you have given up on him, h... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Nobody knows what the future will hold.
Look at the bright side of things.
If he was meant for you , he will come back.
You cannot say there is no more hope.
Hope is there and only if you don't give up.
I am not going to give you any ... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: Can you get pregnant during your period?
The debate on whether or not a woman can get pregnant during her period has been going on for decades now.
Just like every woman is different, so are her hormonal balances and hence her menstrual cycle.... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008:
Words without works is useless. Just saying is not enough .
He needs to prove his love and commitments to you and 4 months is a long time to prove his love for you.
If within this 4 months and you don't see any concrete
actions, you wil... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008: Yup! I agree with your actions.
This would tell him that you mean business and he better take notice or else .
You need to have a time frame because you cannot be in a
timeless black hole forever.... (read in full...)
Am I with the right person or should we make a clean break?
Q. Am I with the right person? I've been dating my high school sweet heart since senior year for 2 years. I believe that this girl will be the best mother to any children she ever has and that is definitely one of her most attractive traits for m...
A. 7 April 2008: It looks like your relationship is pulling apart at the seams .
How you handle it will make or break this relationship.
When two people choose to come together in a relationship,
there will be frictions and you need to have a give and take... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 7 April 2008: She is married and sex with a married women is adultery.
You will only complicate your life.
You can still be a friend to her .
There is a price to pay.
The temptation is there but it is better to walk away from it.
... (read in full...)
I can't figure this man out?
Q. I've been dating a man who has been separated for three years, but has not divorced his wife. He has very low self esteem and drinks daily. He constantly feels the need to frequent bars and seek attention from females but does not sleep with them. ...
A. 7 April 2008: Read the parable of the pop corn machine..
http://www.loveadvice.com/ARTICLES/POPCORN.HTM
He is like a broken down pop corn machine and there is nothing you can do or repair him.
He frequents bars because he finds solace in alcohol and th... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: 3 days before and after the first day of period is your most fertile period.
There is a big risk of getting pregnant...
Better take the morning after pill which is effective before 72 hours.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a huge problem with me being friends with my ex! What do I do?
Q. I had a 8 year relationship in which I was engaged and very close to a woman. That ended three years ago. Recently, I began dating another woman and it has become serious. I felt to resolve the feelings from my past that I would need to make friends ...
A. 7 April 2008: If you are dealing with the female of the species,
you either give her 100% and nothing to the ex or what you
get is what you deserved.
If you pine for your new g/f , you have to let go of the ex
no matter how good she is as a frie... (read in full...)
Should I have been more appreciative or is it right to expect a little more fairness within the household?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend and his best friend for about a year and recently the best friend has become increasingly selfish and obnoxius. For example, taking my work clothes out of the dryer without telling me and putting in his own and ...
A. 7 April 2008: It is never easy when three is a crowd.
There should be plenty of give and take and compromise.
It is always preferred to stay as a couple and no third person involved.
The third person will cause tensions and havoc .
Sorry, you either n... (read in full...)
What is it with men when they reach their 40's ~ they only want to have sex with teenagers?
Q. I have been married for many years and my problem started after my husband turned 40. Our sex life has gone down hill. He can no longer get hard for me. He said he likes young teens...What is it with men when they reach their 40's they only want to ...
A. 7 April 2008: In the monkey world, the males will loss interest in the
females after sometime and sex becomes disinterested to the males.
But when a new group of females were introduced to those males ,
they were interested to copulate again.
In so... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he jokes about my weight. What can I do about it?
Q. Hi I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for about two months and because of my weight I was too shy to take it to the next level. But we had sex the other day he is very slim and he commented on my weight and hurt my feelings. We were havi...
A. 7 April 2008: Sometimes or most of the time , men say things without
thinking and they just blurt it out without thinking of the consequences.
You will have to forgive him because he does not really mean it about your weight.
You can go on a diet and exe... (read in full...)
I feel like I fell in love with somebody who never even liked me!
Q. Hi, Is there anything advice... I worked w/"Sam" and We became friends. Sam always said he wondered why our friendship grew as deep as it did (he was happy about this) and was very comfortable around me even if we were in the car in silence. We h...
A. 7 April 2008: I disagree with your belief that God only give us peace in the after life..
If you know God , He will give you the peace here on Earth and the afterlife.
I found God and I found His peace .No matter what problems
come into my life, I ... (read in full...)
Was I too accommodating to his needs?
Q. OK, I've been dating a guy since January. All we do is have sex. We've been out just a couple of times in 3 months. At first, he was head over heels for me. Anything I wanted, he was there. Now, all he wants to do is come over, have sex, slee...
A. 7 April 2008: Do you have any unfulfilled needs?
You need to communicate to him because his needs are met .
He cannot read your mind.
You need to be in the drivers seat.... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: All you can do is to apologize to him and stop arguing with him.
The more you argue , the more it will harden his heart.
Whatever he says, just keep silent or say you are sorry.
Just tell him what you did was wrong and you don't know why and h... (read in full...)
I want him to come back, yet my heart tells me to leave him alone.
Q. This guy told me to leave him alone because he was talking to someone else...now he's calling me back..i've been nice and i've been talking to him but my heart is telling me that i'm being used, and that he will do it all over again, so i told him ...
A. 7 April 2008: You can try to give him another chance and see how it goes.
Be on your guard and don't let your guard down and get caught.
Sometimes, perceptions can be wrong...
Good luck to you.... (read in full...)
What is the best thing for me to do to cope financially with a baby?
Q. Im 18 years old and I live with my boyfriend and his mother. I have recently found out I was pregnant. My boyfriends mom won't let us stay here if she finds out so we decided not to tell her until we move. I want to keep the baby but my boyfriend ...
A. 7 April 2008: Google for those parenting support groups in your state.
Having a child for the first time can be very apprehensive .
Children are a blessings from God and He will provide for him/her.
Trust Him and everything will work out fine.
Take o... (read in full...)
I feel like I fell in love with somebody who never even liked me!
Q. Hi, Is there anything advice... I worked w/"Sam" and We became friends. Sam always said he wondered why our friendship grew as deep as it did (he was happy about this) and was very comfortable around me even if we were in the car in silence. We h...
A. 7 April 2008: If you are a Christian, I would advise you when you go into
prayer, tell your burdens to Jesus and he will give you the
peace in your heart and heal your hurts.
If you are a non Christian, grief for a short while only and
accept wh... (read in full...)
Should I Confront The Man Who Betrayed Me and Stole My Sexuality For His Own Pleasure?
Q. I am an evangelist in my local church. My husband and I have been sep for 10 yrs. He contracted HIV while were sep, so I know we won't be getting back together. Ran into a past love from about 30 yrs ago (this happened 4 yrs ago). We first dated ...
A. 7 April 2008: Trust in God and everything will be fine.
God will find the way if it is in His will for you.
Do not worry, I am sure when the time is right for you and him to be together.
Be strong in faith .... (read in full...)
My friend who introduced me to my ex made me believe my ex was the ideal person, when in reality he only tried to use me for sex! Your ideas?
Q. I am wondering if my ex bf was trying to use me for sex. On the first date he said to me at the end of the night "do you want to take things to the next level" and I said no, assuming he meant sex. I must have appeared freaked out cause i was. He ...
A. 6 April 2008: He makes you feel desirable and sexy and thats why you feel that you want him back.
They say girls always fall for jerks or rogue guys.
A part of your nurturing instincts think you can manage him and reform his ways.
There is the exciteme... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 6 April 2008: Hi,
ED is treatable and should not be a problem.He should go and consult a doctor.
There should be no shame and many men suffer from ED.
It could also be due to too much stress or pressure from work at that age or just a temporary situati... (read in full...)
Is my ex trying to give me space or waiting for me to contact him?
Q. My bf broke up with me saying that he isnt ready for a relationship right now in his life. He said he still likes me alot and really wants to keep in contact and stay friends, he doesnt want to lose that. I am wondering if this means that maybe he ...
A. 6 April 2008: He is just sugar coating those break up lines.
Do not expect more from this relationship.
It is as good as over.
Sorry to be the bearer of the bad news.
... (read in full...)
My friend who introduced me to my ex made me believe my ex was the ideal person, when in reality he only tried to use me for sex! Your ideas?
Q. I am wondering if my ex bf was trying to use me for sex. On the first date he said to me at the end of the night "do you want to take things to the next level" and I said no, assuming he meant sex. I must have appeared freaked out cause i was. He ...
A. 6 April 2008: They are like snakes from the same snake pit ,
get rid of one , get rid of the other.
End of the story.
... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: That's all lousy excuses....
If he really loves you , he would jumped at your suggestion of marriage.
In love , you can do anything for your partner.
You are not asking for the sky .
I do not see why he should not accept your proposal ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him and try and make it work, or should I move on?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years now...we have a big past, we've both cheated...we've taken breaks....For a long time, I was the one chasing him around while he didnt want to settle down...now, he has changed his ways, and is ready ...
A. 6 April 2008: Ask yourself if you still love him?
If you have another relationship, there will be the same
factors which will be present because no two persons are the same.
Initially you may get along fine but after a certain period
when the real... (read in full...)
What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: Focus on God, focus on your ambitions or things you want to do in life.
This will take away your focus on her.
Think of your priorities in life.... (read in full...)
I'm on his "list" at number 2, is this proof he only wants me for one thing?
Q. my lad mate knows i like him as more than a mate and says he likes me too - were not going out but he wants us to do things with each other but im avoiding it because hes 19, im 15. yesterday we were texting each other and he was being flirty with ...
A. 6 April 2008: It could be just be a random number or there is somebody else which is unavailable but only appear in his dreams.
It could also be true , that he wants only sex from you.
He could have worded it as wanting to marry you.
... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: When a thing is there, it will never be appreciated.
When it is gone , then they only realized the significance and the value of another person.
You need to knock some sense into him or you leave him and make him feel the loss.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: That would probably land you in jail for child abuse and you would be sacked from your job! LOL!
Those social services will never let you see your child again. Your child would be sent to a foster family.
Cry your heart out! They probably th... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you are gay and you are happy about , so be it.
Can anyone be a gay?
Obviously if you are not one, you cannot be one.
If you think being a gay and it is sin,
then Jesus comes for the sinners .
For He came for the weak , the infirm... (read in full...)
What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?
Q. If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you find it hard to decide, why not let fate decide for you if the child will live or not.
You cannot be blamed if the child through no actions of yours did not survive.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: Ask Oldersister,
You and I are lucky we do not live in the UK. If you smack
your child's behind because you child tells you to F&*K off
, you cow!, you can land in jail and charged for child
assault and in some , you maybe b... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you believed it is a sin , then it is a sin.
If you don't , then don't believe what others say.
There are gay churches and gay pastors.
Let no one judge you and neither you be a judge.
According to God. all are sinners, whether you are... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: This is another terrible tragedy and can only happen in the UK.
Locked up for smacking my son ... How a slap brought police and social services in to tear a family apart
From
http://www.dailymail.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: From the Daily mail
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=547009&in_page_id=1770
'I came back from a fag and my baby was gone' ... ,mother of child 'snatched' by social workers speaks for first time
By G... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: In the year ending March 31 2005, 60,900 children were taken in care - most placed with foster parents or in children's homes.
The majority of youngsters find themselves being looked after by the state because of abuse or neglect (62 per cent), f... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: In the UK, the social worker can give erroneous reports and forcibly take away the children away from their parents care.
There have been cases where it was found that it was wrong to take away the child from their natural parents over some min... (read in full...)
Why aren't you men wooing us any more?
Q. Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...
A. 6 April 2008: Those kind of men where they exist can probably be found in the rural heartlands in the USA
Recently , there was a news article about the present trend
of city slickers going after those rural cowboys who are like perfect gentlemen of the... (read in full...)
He's not pulling his weight. I have to clean everything. Will having separate living spaces work?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together, lived together happily (until recently) for 7 years. The age old argument between men and women about cleaning hasn't stopped and has continued to get worse. I literally do everything around the house including ...
A. 6 April 2008: If you still love your partner and he is incapable of doing
those chores, you will have to bear with that burden until
he comes to his senses or never.
If you are sick of doing it alone , then you need to set your limits and boundaries.
... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 5 April 2008: End of one chapter in your life and the new dawn of another era.
When the love is gone, it is very hard to rekindle the sparks again.
You were not meant for each other.
Now that you have come to the end of this road , another journey begins... (read in full...)
Why aren't you men wooing us any more?
Q. Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...
A. 5 April 2008: Today's women have many doors opened to them unlike their counterparts from their mother's generations. More women are going to the universities and more women are now gainfully employed and many are earning more than the men. The traditio... (read in full...)
I'm ready to settle down but he isn't.....will our long-term goals tear us apart?
Q. Need advice My bf is 32, i'm 27 and we've been together for almost a year. We are great together, we make each other laugh, spend a lot of time together, met each other's families and friends and basically all the ingredients of a good relation...
A. 5 April 2008: His future is not certain as he will be relocating to another country.
He cannot give you a definite answer as he cannot be sure of the future.
I think this is what is holding him back.
He does not have the confidence .
What he ... (read in full...)
How do I not be insecure when there are hotter girls than me?
Q. I've always felt insecure about my looks (never been considered pretty or hot). My BF thinks I'm hot. However, he's also said that there are hot chicks everywhere. Now I'm more insecure. He gets mad if I go on about feeling insecure. He said hot ...
A. 5 April 2008: You had your hot moments and now it is others turn.
Today's hot chicks , tomorrow everything will droop.
Hey! You man is not an immortal and hot chicks will give him a miss.... (read in full...)
Is the withdrawing method safe?
Q. me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we ...
A. 5 April 2008: No contraceptives is 100% safe and the withdrawal method is not safe at all.
You may get pregnant from this method.
There is still the risk of getting pregnant during your most fertile periods.... (read in full...)
Is there any way to be in a relationship with your teacher without any problems?
Q. Okay lets say you love your teacher and then you find out he loves you back....cant there be someway for the two to be together with out any problems??...
A. 5 April 2008: As long as you do not have a sexual relationship or getting
pregnant ,then it is within the boundaries of the law.
It is not a crime to love each other .
It may be inappropriate that is all.
... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 4 April 2008:
Forgiveness….
Romans 12:17
Never pay back evil with evil..Do things in such a way that everyone can see u are honest clear enough.
Don't quarrel with anyone. Be at peace with everyone just as much as possible.
God , forgive u... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 4 April 2008: I don't come here for those 'sick' Agony Aunts.
They can rant all they want and it is a waste of my resources to reply them. Period!
... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 3 April 2008: Apologize to Dan for the error.
My eyes may have been blurred..LOL!
... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 3 April 2008: Whatever happened in the past, you should let go and forgive her.
Keeping a grudge against her will not bode well for you.
Do exorcise those hateful spirits for they will only do you harm.
Try to understand her predicaments and those c... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 31 March 2008: Life is like a fortune's wheel. It goes up and then down and will go up again. It is like the four seasons. Things cannot get any worse and will get better from now. Be more positive and stop thinking in a negative way. You will find someone who ... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 21 March 2008: If you want a quick response to your problem, better to send
that mail because it will provoked him into actions.
That way you will know the results quickly and not let your
relationship be hanging in the air or in a timeless space.
If ... (read in full...)
After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?
Q. After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...
A. 20 March 2008: In your letter you can say all your careful thoughts in an uninterrupted and calm way.
If you were to talk face to face, you may not be able to get
though all those points because you could be emotional and irrational.
Furthermore, he... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 4 March 2008: He is not in the marriage market. I am afraid, there is nothing much you can do except if you want to wait by the seashore and turned into a stone.
The choice is yours.
Keep him until someone better comes along, then you jump ship or live a s... (read in full...)
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