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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 29 October 2007: I'm so pleased for you. Things seem to be coming on heaps and bounds for you in this new relationship. And you're right, your ex was more familiar to you and 3 years is a long time but now you've moved on and seem to have found yourself a lovely ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 18 September 2007: I'm so pleased for you. It's a true saying, when one door closes another one opens. Enjoy being in each others company and getting to know one another and who knows what might happen. Again, well done! Keep us posted.
Eve... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 August 2007: I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to but at least she was honest with you and you can put closure on it now and move on. Things WILL get better, there are plenty more fish in the sea as the saying goes and with every day that ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 10 August 2007: You see, she's beginning to notice a difference in you. Continue with your Counselling, you'll come on heaps and bounds and most importantly continue to have a positive attitude towards life. Remember, YOU are in charge of your own destiny so get ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 6 August 2007: You will have times like that but hey, you'll kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess. It may be your ex it may not be and if you're to be together then you will be. Just take one day at a time, think positive, get on with life and if ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 24 July 2007: Hey I'm so pleased for you! I would say you have a definite admirer there. She seems just as keen on you as you do on her so well done there! See? Your positive thinking has payed off for you. The world doesn't end when your ex wants to call it ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 17 July 2007: You're missing her and thinking negatively now. Just get on with things and keep a little bit of her in your heart then when December comes meet up again like you both agreed. A lot can happen between now and then but it will certainly test you ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 July 2007: She will be wanting the break for all of the things that you mention, she'll be wanting to test her feelings for you. I do believe in fate and think that if something's meant to be then it will be, it will find YOU so if you ARE both meant to be ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 12 July 2007: You sound far more positive and relaxed about things now. I smiled when I read your comments as you seem far more focussed on your way ahead now, I'm so please for you. Like you said, you can both live your lives with freedom of choice.
Keep ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 9 July 2007: It's not fair of her to keep on playing with your emotions, mentioning things in the past (the towel incident for example). She is more or less putting the guilt on YOU here saying she felt pressurised but that to me is an excuse. You get on with ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 9 July 2007: I am so sorry that the decision she made wasn't the one you hoped for. Things happen in our lives for a reason and maybe you two just weren't mean to be although you won't see it this way at the moment. Unfortunately we can't make someone love us ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 6 July 2007: Okay, I read over all of the posts again just to clarify things in my mind. This woman is crazy on you BUT she doesn't want to give you her all and you leave her again. In your very first post in this thread you say this - "Leaving the home has ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 4 July 2007: Here are some sites you can look at, one is to help you "Find Yourself" and the others are to help build up your confidence and self esteem.
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Yourself
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
http://pi... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 27 June 2007: Just keep busy and keep thinking POSITIVE and the time will fly in. Under no circumstances must you get in touch with her though. If you do then anything positive that's been achieved will be undone. Let her MISS you! ;o)
Eve... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 25 June 2007: Okay, I misread your meaning of the "old days", it was a positive rather than a negative. I think you have both done exactly the right thing. NO CONTACT for 4 weeks. That will help both of you see whether or not you are right for one another. It ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 25 June 2007: Nice to hear from you again! I was reading your posts again. You seem to miss her when she's not there and enjoy keeping in touch with her, wining and dining her and meeting up but when it comes to the actual crunch of being together for too long ... (read in full...)
We broke up, he had debt problems and he left town. Now he's back. Should I contact him?
Q. hi i will try to keep this short! basically after 4years together my ex decide he wasn't in love with me and broke up then moved away. his mother told me the fact he was in debt was a major factor. for a while things after the breakup were messy ...
A. 2 May 2007: Being in debt brings its own problems. He was probably under a lot of stress at the time which could have been one of the contributing factors to your break up. You obviously still have feelings for him so yes, I would email him. Keep it light, ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions to get this guy I used to like...out of my head??
Q. Ok this has been driving me nuts and I need help with this, theres this guy I use to like but I havent seen him in ages and I don't know he left me on bad terms (he turned in to a jerk) and now he has just poped up in my head and I don't know what I ...
A. 2 May 2007: Think about why this guy left you, think of all the bad things he did or said to you and why you are MUCH better off without him. Tell yourself you deserve much better and he doesn't deserve you AND BELIEVE IT!!!
Then think about what you REAL... (read in full...)
The other night he said he loved me but that he isnt in love with me.Can someone tell me the difference?
Q. I have been seeing someone for 7 months now and before this we were good friends i have known him for almost 3 years as we lived next door to each other and we get along most of the time. The other night he said he loved me but that he isnt in love ...
A. 2 May 2007: When a lot of marriages or relationships break up, one partner often says that they love the other but that they're not "in love" with them any more. What this means is that they like and respect the person they are, they are fond of them, as often ... (read in full...)
How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day? Is she considered easy?
Q. How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day, the first month, or even after six months of dating a guy. Is she considered easy if she sleeps with him on the first day?...
A. 2 May 2007: It is more and more common now for women to sleep with guys when they feel like it, even if it is on a first date however the old adage still applies. If a girl sleeps with a guy on the FIRST date the guy tends to think "hmmmm if she was so easy as ... (read in full...)
I'm asking about a medical operation that would remove a hymen.
Q. if there are doctors here, or people who happen to know: I'm asking about a medical operation that would remove a hymen. I would be curious about the costs, but that's not the place to ask that. So could you please tell me about the RISKS? Any o...
A. 1 May 2007: I am not a doctor but here are 2 sites I'm sure you'll find very helpful, the first is about hymen removal or removing the remnants of one and the other is more detailed and tells you how the hymen is actually removed and what exactly is involved. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so coy and gain a bit of confidence?
Q. Hi there, I'm 27 and have been single for around 5 months now. My problem is though that if a girl catches my eye in a club or pub etc. I have a total lack of confidence to approach her and I go clueless as to what to say to break the ice. Say ...
A. 1 May 2007: You need to feel more positive about yourself. Write down all the things you like about yourself, your good points, what part of your body do you like best, parts of your personality you like too. Then sit and write down what positive things you ... (read in full...)
Please help me, I don't want to lose someone so important just because I'm scared.
Q. Im not the type of girl to fall in love... im not the type of girl who falls in love like most of my mates. I tend to stear clear of deep relationships because i know they end up with tears and broken hearts. ive been with my boyfriend now...
A. 1 May 2007: Explain to him how you're feeling. Tell him you don't mean to push him away, you're just scared in case you lose him. If he truly has feelings for you then he'll understand and will reassure you. It's only natural when things are going so well ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to get over someone?
Q. Im in my late 30's and I've just finished a 4 year relationship because i found out that he was cheating on me with another woman, i was devastated because i thought he was happy with me. How do I get over him? because i feel so depressed, i won't ...
A. 1 May 2007: I'm sorry to hear that your relationship broke up, 4 years is a long time to be together with someone and there will be a lot of memories. I could go on here and give you pointers but I think the best way is to give you this link which I think says ... (read in full...)
What on earth did my dream mean???
Q. HELP! I had a dream that I was in the mall with my ex, and I kissed her! I honestly have no feelings for her whatsoever, and I have been seeing my current girlfriend for almost a year! What the heck did that dream mean?...
A. 1 May 2007: To dream that you are shopping in a mall indicates your needs and desires. To dream of a kiss, denotes love, affection, tranquility, harmony, and contentment. To dream about your ex suggests that something or someone in your current life is ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about this married guy!
Q. I am having same feelings for two persons...one is my boyfriend and other guy was one i flirted with, other guy is married but i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do ya...how can i stop thinking about other guy...please suggest...
A. 30 April 2007: The other guy is married so he is off limits but of course you know that. You need to spend more quality time with your boyfriend if you don't want to lose him. Find ways to spice up your relationship so that you're crazy about him again. This ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and pregnant and don't really know what to do for the best.
Q. hi agony aunts and uncles. im in a bit of bother and dont know how to handle the situation :S i am pregnant, i know your probably either thinking oh god another teenage slag up duff at 14 how stupid sort of thing but thats to be expected. i have ...
A. 30 April 2007: Do you know for a fact that you're pregnant? If so then strongly suggest you tell your mum and she'll be able to help you through this and she'll be able to talk to your dad about it. You say it's not your boyfriend's fault you got pregnant... OF ... (read in full...)
I have sentimental feelings with another girl but I feel pretty let down, can you help?
Q. Greetings. For some time now I've been having a sentimental relationship with a female. We are very compatible on the most important levels of this type of relationship. However, on certain occasions I can't help but feeling about 20% let down, be...
A. 30 April 2007: You have feelings for this woman but you feel these feelings aren't being returned right? What things is she doing to make you feel they're not being returned? How is she inefficient? Have you ever been out on a date together?
Eve... (read in full...)
I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.
Q. Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...
A. 30 April 2007: I'm sorry, but your relationship isn't that serious if you can still go to your ex and kiss him and you're definitely not "deeply in love" with him or you would never even consider doing what you're doing. If this kiss with your ex was a one off ... (read in full...)
Should I continue seeing this man or marry re my own culture and religion?
Q. hi, ive been through alot of shit in my life and somehow have managed to come out of it all. ive been heart broken twice and hurt. currently i am livin in the opposite side of the country to my parents, i am studyuing and when im finished i am ex...
A. 30 April 2007: You need to be honest with him and tell him how you're feeling. You say you believe in your religion, just not all the rules. You don't say how old you are but if you're over the age of 18 then you can choose for yourself what you want to do with ... (read in full...)
She's not his ex, she's STILL his girlfriend even though I've been seeing him for 2 months.
Q. I stumbled on this site and read a lot of sensible answers to questions. My boyfriend of two months and I seem to be on and off all the time. We seem to get close physically (we have not gone all the way) and then he wants to meet and tell me that ...
A. 30 April 2007: It's pretty obvious why he's backing off if what you say is right! You need to confront him and ask him outright, is he still with this other woman? Let him know you know she's out of the country at the moment and you don't like being used when ... (read in full...)
We are both taking precautions but he is still so scared in case I get pregnant.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and we have sex 5 to 6 times a week sometimes more. We most always use a condom and I am on birth control, but he is so scared that he is going to get me pregnant. What can I do to make him see that ...
A. 30 April 2007: Going together for 4 months and having sex 5 to 6 times a week means you have made love approximately 96 times!!!!! so he's not that scared! lol
All you need to do is reassure him that you ARE talking your pill and using a condom only enforces... (read in full...)
Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?
Q. I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts ...
A. 29 April 2007: At the end of the day your mum only wants the best for you and for you to be happy. She is a lot more experienced in life than you are. Maybe you have had some bad relationships in the past and she is trying to help choose the best partner for ... (read in full...)
I'm scared he wants to have sex with me because I'm only young.
Q. My Boyfriend and I Have been seeing each other for a couple of months. Im really scared he wants to have sex and because im only young, im scared that i feel like i do to, is it because of my age or not?...
A. 29 April 2007: Yes, it IS because of your age. You are NOT ready to have sex with anyone right now or you would never have posted this question. You're "scared!" Continue seeing him but don't even think about having sex with him, your body is still growing and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend texts me and I know he loves me but he never tells me how he feels on the phone, only in texts.
Q. hi every one i just want to know if any one out there can help me with my bf the thing is my bf dont talk that much and i dont know why that is really he will text me all the time and tell me how he feels about me but when it comes to talking to me ...
A. 29 April 2007: Some guys are "talkers" and some guys are "thinkers". Your boyfriend is obviously a thinker and texts you how he feels because he has the time to think about it. I really wouldn't worry about it. He's with you, you know he loves you even although ... (read in full...)
What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?
Q. I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...
A. 29 April 2007: You have said you are not happy with him and preferred it when you were on your own with your kids. That is your answer! He left you when you were either heavily pregnant or just had your new child. You said he became more and more distant when ... (read in full...)
How do you delete a post you wrote?
Q. Hiya, can you delete posts you sent? I want to delete one please help if you can?! =] Thanks!...
A. 29 April 2007: The only way a post can be deleted is by Andrew (aka Dear Cupid). Andrew is the boss here and runs this site. Drop him an email and he'll gladly delete the post for you.
Eve... (read in full...)
Unhappy with my marriage...hubby and I just don't talk and spend time together! What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid, i am been very unhaapy of late my husband and i work 24-7 and we dont spend any quality time together except on our day off. We work together but never see each other if u see what i mean, when we re at home we never seem to converse and ...
A. 28 April 2007: One of the cornerstones in a relationship is communication and that is what's broken down here. You both need to spend some quality time together! Yes, he needs to work and maybe you do too but everything in balance. He's showing more time and ... (read in full...)
Mom seems critical about the way I live my life. I know she loves me and wants to help..but I need tips on how to deal with her?
Q. I feel my mon is real nice to me but too critical sometime and insists on me putting up with people I dislike to be more sociable and to try dating guys I do not like just to see if they can be an interesting boyfriend or somethig, she always puts ...
A. 28 April 2007: Can I ask how old you are? What is you and your mum's star sign?
Eve... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 20 April 2007: Yes, she is missing you, hence the reason she wants to involve you more. Just remember and don't always be too willing, have your own opinions and your own mind and don't be so accommodating all the time and I reckon you've cracked it!
I wish you... (read in full...)
The married man I'm seeing says he sleeps in a different bedroom to his wife and only stays because of his son. Is he telling the truth?
Q. hi i've been dating a married man for 6 weeks sat, he says he sleeps in a diffferent bedroom and he only stays at his house for his son and because he pays the mortgage, he says he loves me and cant give me a 100 percent as he has his 12 year old ...
A. 12 April 2007: You are this man's "bit on the side" and nothing more. He's telling you what you want to hear. HE IS USING YOU big time! What will happen is this... you will fall for him big time and start asking him to leave her if he really loves you, he'll ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is on the rebound or truly still loves me?
Q. hi i spit up with my girlfreind on Saturday and she told me that she got with thier neighbor who moved in on the Monday 2nd April next door to her and her friends say she does not love me coz i told her that i thought i heard her say i really love ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think this relationship has run it's course. I don't think she's on the rebound unfortunately. Why did you split up with her?
Eve... (read in full...)
Should I mind him meeting up with his ex as friends or not?
Q. hi im really confused my boyfriend sent me this... --------------------------------------------------- me n jas r jus m8s nw, im goin2 meet her on sataday as MATES. nufn mor. k i fink ul dump me afta readin dis email. if so den b4 u do, al i...
A. 12 April 2007: I would call your boyfriend's bluff here and tell him you don't mind him meeting up with her. Tell him you trust him enough and know he wouldn't do the dirty on as you would never do it to him, as long as it doesn't become a habit.
You could ma... (read in full...)
I am 14 years old and feel very fat and very ugly...
Q. I'm fourteen and i am very ugly, im fat and thats all i see wheneva i look at myself, i am trying to go on a diet and i try not to eat very much, especially not to eat junk food, i've ate junk twice since ive started about five days ago and when i ...
A. 12 April 2007: It's not normal to chew your food and spit it out like that, you'll end up with a very serious condition called "Bulimia" which can really mess up your insides.
http://www.mamashealth.com/bulimia.asp
You are very young and will probably be very eas... (read in full...)
I HATE my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Please help I HATE my boyfriend's best friend! We never got on from the start because he told my boyfriend he could do better and that I was fat and ugly. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years but me not getting on with his friend is ...
A. 12 April 2007: I totally disagree with Maria and am with ChiRaven on this one. DON'T give him the "it's me or him" ultimatum. YOU'LL LOSE! Guys hate being told what to do and he has a lot of time for his friend. He's probably been best mates with him even ... (read in full...)
I have developed feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same.
Q. I have been friends on and off with a girl for 2 years and a half years, but lately we have got closer since my break-up with my ex; she has been helping me through it, talking on the phone, texting, but recetly I have started to develop feelings ...
A. 10 April 2007: Then change things NOW. Remain strong and assertive and give her the space she needs... ALL the space she needs. If she's interested in you then let HER make the first move, until then you need to lie low or she'll only see your advances as a ... (read in full...)
I have developed feelings for her but she doesn't feel the same.
Q. I have been friends on and off with a girl for 2 years and a half years, but lately we have got closer since my break-up with my ex; she has been helping me through it, talking on the phone, texting, but recetly I have started to develop feelings ...
A. 10 April 2007: The reason she is ignoring you is because you're making a nuisance of yourself by texting her too much. You're becoming a proverbial pain in the butt to her (to put it bluntly.) You say you told 2 people... you told them what???
Eve... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 10 April 2007: You have pulled back a bit and now she's chasing, simple as that! Because you've not seen her as often then she's missed you. Talking on the phone for long periods of time, although nice, can mean that you do say things you regret so you should ... (read in full...)
How do I show the mother of my children that I still care for her?
Q. I have been in a relationship with the mother of my children on and off for the past ten years. We have not been together the last 2 years, but it seems as we have had the same relationship as always. The past few months I have realized that with ...
A. 10 April 2007: She has started to see someone else so all her focus will be going into that relationship and you have been put on the backburner for now, that's the reason for her distance with you. Give her the space she needs to be with this guy, I know it ... (read in full...)
My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible??
Q. My doctor and I are seriously attracted to each other. Is a relationship possible, or is it even legal? Please advise....
A. 10 April 2007: A doctor should NEVER get attached to any of his patients apart from treating them. If you both are attracted to one another and you are both single then you need to change your doctor immediately. If he were to go out with you and you were his ... (read in full...)
We're separated but she stills seems to want to be a couple even though she says differently. What do I do?
Q. i am at the end of my tether, my ex and i split 8 mths ago, we have a 2 yr old daughter and we were living together, in the new year after both walking away from each other i returned to see my daughter, i always said to my mates i was totaly over ...
A. 9 April 2007: SHE is having her cake and eat it here! You need to change the rules a bit here if you want her back. Rule number 1... DON'T SLEEP TOGETHER... not yet. If you stay round her place because of fallouts with your family or whatever then sleep on the ... (read in full...)
How can I get my bf to like my parents?
Q. I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and early in the relationship their were harsh words exchaged with my bf and my parents. I love my family so much, and I love my boyfriend so much too. We plan to get married in the future, but my boyfriend ...
A. 9 April 2007: Are your parents willing to swallow THEIR pride and try to make a go of it with him again? If this man really loves you then he'll do it for you! He should know how much you love your family, after all, if it wasn't for your parents, he would ... (read in full...)
How do I show the mother of my children that I still care for her?
Q. I have been in a relationship with the mother of my children on and off for the past ten years. We have not been together the last 2 years, but it seems as we have had the same relationship as always. The past few months I have realized that with ...
A. 9 April 2007: She can't read your mind.... if you want to be with her again TELL HER!!! How did you both split up in the first place?
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bf is very controlling in our relationship. Am I wasting my time?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend a year and it's been a little rough. We're a lot better now. I'm 19, and I just got an awesome job. Pays a lot. I moved in with my bf months ago, we're paying $800 for the basement of his mother's house. He doesn't have a job ...
A. 9 April 2007: It's what YOU think that really matters. You need to sit down and ask yourself some serious questions. Just how much to you love your boyfriend? Has he really tried to get another job? Is he using you? Is he too controlling for your liking? ... (read in full...)
I have an opportunity to express my feelings. What do I do?
Q. I am currently best friends with a girl I used to go out with. Recently, we had a chat because she had been having trouble with her bf but that seems to have been resolved last night. The problem is that the situation was very similar if not t...
A. 9 April 2007: You're best friends with her, that's great! Most ex's never speak with one another again. She seems to respect your opinions which is another good thing. Next time you both get into a deep or meaningful conversation say to her how it could have ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my boyfriend being so clingy and how do I tell him he's being clingy?
Q. Hi, I have a very clingy boyfriend and I need help to tell him that. He's my first, and I've been with him for 2 years. During that time though, we had a lil' drama with a third-party and I broke up with him but later reconciled. Now however I'm ...
A. 9 April 2007: Hi IS insecure and he must be missing you badly. The best way to go about making him less clingy is to reassure him. Let him know you love and miss him too, let him know what you're doing from time to time too. If you're out with friends tell him ... (read in full...)
What can I do to spice my relationship with my boyfriend?
Q. What can I do to spice my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been together 2 years but are waiting until marriage for intercourse. Is there anything i can do to make him desire me more, or get that new exciting feel again?...
A. 9 April 2007: Well done on wanting to wait for marriage before you sleep together, it's nice to know that some couples still feel that way. I've given you a link that might help you it gives you "10 Ways to Create a More Exciting Relationship," I hope it ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 31 March 2007: I'm glad things are going well for you but I would pull back even further. You said you have seen her 6 days out of 7. Reduce that 4 days out of 7. Let her know you have things to do but would love to see her (Wednesday). MAKE HER WANT YOU!!! ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 18 March 2007: She NOTICED you didn't reply right away! That's good! If she calls you tomorrow asking to arrange something, suggest you call her back in an hour to be sure, say you have something else you needed to attend to and don't know if you can leave it or ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 17 March 2007: Nooooo, you came across loud and clear the first time. You went for coffee, went back to her house to collect something then spoiled it lol by asking her did she want company. You poor love, I know how you are feeling, clutching at anything to ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 17 March 2007: It IS the best way, you'll see I'm right. Woman like a bit of a challenge and don't like a guy to always just "be there" when they snap their fingers, they lose their appeal. Keep in touch :o)
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We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 March 2007: She cried because she knows how much you feel for her and you calling to ask if she wanted some company only confirmed that. If I were you I wouldn't call her or text her. Let HER do the running. She really IS trying to get her head around all of ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 March 2007: That is why you both need to move back down a couple of gears, take things very slowly, don't see one another as often and try not to sleep together as this only messes with your head and emotions. Put some space between you to see if you actually ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 14 March 2007: I'm glad things are working out for you and your night was a success. Yes, keep us posted and let us know how things go! Be there for her without being too "in her face" all the time and you'll be fine. I wish you both all the very best.
Eve... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 12 March 2007: Here is what to do if you want to win her back. She's getting the best of both worlds just now. She has her freedom to be with her friends and she has you! You said you still see her a couple of times a week and still have a kiss and cuddle ... (read in full...)
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