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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why do I feel terrible after giving oral sex to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month and a half. Having had not so great ex's (2 in total) in the past, I wanted to be careful about the next guy I chose to be with. I'm still a virgin, but I've had oral sex (I could classify as a technical virgin ...

G/f gave permission to cheat since she wants to wait till after marriage to have sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I pretty much just met the woman of my dreams... except for one thing. She doesn't want to have sex until marriage. She tells me that she is a virgin and wants to stay that way until she is married. The strange thing is, she has told me that I could ...

LDR boyfriend is coming, there will be lots of sex but thats not what I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf and myself stay in separate places like 8 hrs drive from each other. He visits me like 2 months once , but lately he is very moody and not talking to me much in phone and is getting very irriated very often even for small things...

Diarrhea every time after anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo...this is kind of a gross question, buuut it's something i've really been kind of concerned about. is there any connection between diahrrea and anal sex? it seems like every time i have anal, i have diahrrea for at least a couple d...

Is it normal to sleep with someone else on the stag/hen do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi. Is it normal for a guy/girl to sleep with someone else on their stag/hen do? I've known people to do this but I dont think I agree with it. Would love to hear some opinions, not just from girls, guys too please! Thanks for reading. ...

Newlywed virgin not had sex yet. Shall I just 'get it over with' even though it hurts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - So, my husband and I are recently married (only married about a month and a half, so far) but we're still dealing with the issue of my...ahem...virginity...I've never engaged in full intercourse/penetration and we have tried numerous times already, ...

Why do women often settle for the nice guy over great sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Why do women who are very in need of a solid sex life, settle for men who are not the most sexual? I have seen so many couples lately in my circle of friends where there is a definite mismatch in sex drives, or in some cases, even sexual ...

Sex for two years and no orgasm! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Well I have a problem, I've just finally started to feel sexy an confident in sex after having it for 2 years. But I don't ever climax, its pleasurable and everything but i've not once cummed... is there somethign wrong with me? Also I dont fi...

He has only made love to me twice in 5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last 9 years after moving from the UK to Canada to be with him. I love him more than anything, but there is a problem with our relationship in the bedroom department. He has only made love to me twice in ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

How do I break it off with this married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - How in the world do I break it off with the married guy im sleeping with? im tired of him texting only for sex. He doesn't have a real conversation with me anymore. The sex is so wonderful with him but I can't take not being respected anymore. He ...

My fiancee's promiscuous past disgusts me.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Cupid, my wife to be has a promiscuous past, am having second thoughts as am a virgin.am not insecure am just disgusted with how she lived her life. Should i stay or let her down gently...

Can insecurities prevent a woman from having an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Can a girls insecurities about her body (weight, how her vagina looks, birthmarks on her face) inhibit her ability to have an orgasm?...

How do I broach the virgin topic with this guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Ok I,m going out with this great guy over a month now and I think i,m ready to sleep with him. The thing is I,m a virgin and he doens't exactly know it. like we've messed around a bit but I pushed him away when he tried to go forward and I do have ...

Is it possible for us to not have sex for the 4-5 years before we get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi! Here's my problem.i and my bf have been dating for 8 months now and we have not had sex with each other.i'm a virgin but he is not.we agreed not to have sex until we are married which could be in 4-5 years time.we only only have make out ...

I would love to make my boyfriend happy but it's just so much effort and I get nothing out of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and love him so much and still find him very attractive, but when it comes to sex i just cant be bothered.... When we first got together we were doing it all the time but its faded to only about once eve...

He wants me to have sex with someone else because he has no sex drive, and he wants to fool around with a man again as he is bisexual! How do I cope with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I'm in need of some serious advice. So lately my husband's sex drive has plummeted and our sex life hasn't been that great because along with his sex drive his stamina has plummeted as well. Well he sat me down two days ago and said that he knows he ...

I cant stop sleeping around when I'm drunk!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have a very embaressing problem. I cant stop sleeping around when Im drunk. In the past month, Ive gone out a couple of times and got absolutely plastered, pulled some bloke and took him back to mine. I have sex with them then I kick them out. In ...

Is there anything I can do to help myself achieve an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and have been sexually active with my boyfriend for a few months now. My problem is that I am never able to orgasm! I have orgasmed through the use of a vibrator, but I have never been able to orgasm through masturba...

Hurts when I give him head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Why does it hurt my bfs penis when I try to give him a blow job? I think my teeth get in the way or could it be because I have my lip pierced. How can I give him a really good Bj?...

Friends with benefits has been going on for more than a year and a half, could it be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Wondering if you all could help me with a situation I'm having with my "friends with benefits" if it was that serious. It's more of a f*ck buddy relationship because we weren't friends at the time we met. Anyway, we've been going on for more than ...

Are there any happy couples out there who don't have oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I was just wondering if it is possible to have a happy and satisfying relationship without oral sex. So many people on this web site are complaining about their partner who refuses to go down on them. Are there people who are satisfied with their ...

We used to be in love but now its all going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Alright, so I'm having soo many problems with my boyfriend right now. I'm bored of our sex and he can't really give me an orgasm anymore. I asked him if we could try a threesome and he got really really pissed. He asked who I'd choose and I told him ...

My FWB started liking another guy so I downplayed my feelings for her, now she seems to be falling for the other guy even more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - i have a sex partner we've been having sex maybe just over a month now.. but i feel like our sex has been going down a hill lately.. how do u spice things up? and.. i am falling for her but she told me she likes this other guy who she just m...

I want sensual affection. He wants to take it slow. But is he really into me this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - my partner broke up with with me 3 months ago due to not being able to handle his life-- it seems as though he wanted a simple life and getting rid of me would eliminate one stress. I acted desperate- crawled back a million times and got rejected ...

She lied and told me she was a virgin, the truth came out while drinking

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, the woman i am suppose to marry is a liar. 2 years ago i asked her if she was a virgin because i am and didnt want to waste each orther's time if we had different ideals about premarital sex. She said she was a virgin, now that i am ...

8 months pregnant and I can't climax

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - i need help i am 17 years old and i am 8 months pregnant, i dont know if this is from the hormonal changes but i cant seem to climax. i tend to squirt but only when me and my bf have anal sex i dont let myself relax though when i feel the sensati...

Squirting--I don't know what it is or how to do it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I'm not sure this is the right place to ask this question but I'm desperate for an answer. My boyfriend keeps asking me if I've ever 'squirted' during an orgasm....he says he really wants me too but I don't know what this means or how to do it, any ...

I'm worried about getting pregnant while taking birth control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid..i have been on birth control for about 6 to 7 months, but i havent had sex before. The reason why i got on them was because i thought it wouldnt be soon before i wasnt a virgin anymore but looks like i still am. Anwyays, the first i have ...

Made my boyfriend cum by lying on top of him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I made my boyfriend cum, and he said it was because i was on top of him, (we were just kissing) and i didnt think a boy could cum from just being on top of him. Or is there something else to it? ...

Am I bi-curious, or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I know there have been other posts like this but... My problem is that recently I have found that to get in the mood for sex with my boyfriend of two years I have started to imagine myself being with another woman. And it really gets me in the m...

Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

I love this girl but I cant connect with her intellectually and its getting very complicated and difficult for me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help and advice. This is my first time posting on any advice site. I figured it would be best to get my thoughts down and see what other people have to say. Here it goes..... I have gotten back together with my ex girlfriend of 2 ...

Why doesn't my old school friend want a relationship with me, but will work 40hours a week with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - An old school friend was going through divorce and we had sex on Valentine's Day.he knew I was crazy about him.Then he just went quiet.I got upset because I felt he used me for sex and I told him that.He said that I really pissed him off saying ...

QWEEFING!!!!! help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - heyy everyone, well its a well known fact that every woman qweefs :( ive recently discovered this. i was hoping some people might be able to tell me how they prevent qweefing during intercourse. What positions are more likely to make you qweef and ...

How can I get rid of this guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for over 2 and half years and when I say seeing thats a big joke. He basically comes around just for sex. I have told him and told him that this is not what I want and I want to be respected and spend time with him socially...

Bf is threatening my future teaching career by posting our sex tape on the Internet. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Please help. I don't know what to do? I'm going to become a teacher and as a teacher I cant have porn or any pictures of me. My boyfriend and I made a video last year, and know he is threatening to post it on the internet and says he already has. ...

He wants to give me oral. I'm nervous about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and have done nothing sexual. He keeps saying he wants to eat me out and I used to be okay with the idea but now I'm kinda nervous that it'll be weird. Any tips? ...

Does wearing a condom interfere with a man's sexual pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I am just being curious. I went out with a guy and he told me that he does not like to wear condom when he have sex as it diminishes his sexual pleasure. So, I always wanted to know, does wearing a condom interferes with a man's sexual pleasure? Is ...

Do you need instant chemistry with someone to be able to have a good marriage with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, Does it bode poorly for a marriage that neither my fiancee nor I really had any sexual chemistry at first? We knew each other as friends while she dated a few other people before she claims that she saw me in a sexual way. On m...

Did he break thorough....will I be ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I just turned 20(never done it)and im about close to getting my period but i saw my boyfriend and well he fingered me but when he stopped i saw blood..at first i thought i got my period but i havent, how should i say this, i havent really continued ...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

Does him getting in a huff about me seeing my ex mean he has feelings for me or just cant he commit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - ok, little back story... I was dating this guy for 8 months but he was a rebound relationship after my first used me and dumped me for someone else. I could never get over my first relation while I was with him so after my 3 time trying to contact ...

Different sex style and sexual expectations...how can we make compromises in bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Hello everybody, so one month ago, i've started dating one guy. I'm 22 and he's 30 (these age differences are ok for us). We have decieded to be a lovers and maybe one day couple, but we're not in really hurry. Our dates are in the nature, in t...

Is there any hope for improvement? He is not as interested in satisfying me as I am for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - i can't understand why me and my boyfriend have such problems when it comes to sex? Yesterday we had sex but none of us got off. So we said oh well lets just try tomorrow. So tomorrow comes and I put a sexy little dress on in the hope that he will...

As a relationship, how can I make this work? Is she just humoring me or being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - me and my ex just started seeing each other not even a week ago when my therapist called her to see if she would come in for a session. She called me and we met up. Then hooked up and it was great. We still fought almost the whole time (just...

He truly doesn't turn me on sexually anymore. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and it feels like I've lost my interest in him sexually. We went hard and heavy the first 2 years but it went downhill from there. We have been going through problems which I think has some...

Why did he start taking photos during sex ? Is it a trophy thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 August 2011 (?) - Very long story short, me and a guy i had a thing with ended up bumping into each other a few days ago. One thing led to another and we slept together. It was a huge, huge mistake. Since then I found out he has a girlfriend and so I removed ...

My wife says that sex with me grosses her out. Can that change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - I am 38 and my wife is 41. We do not have sex anymore and have not for at least a decade. She says that sex with me grosses her out. She says that the idea of sex itself does not gross her out, and she fantasizes about sex with other men sometimes, ...