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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I'm very pregnant and he doesn't want sex for fear of hurting the baby. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i am 6 months pregnant with my first child. 5 weeks ago i had some abnormal spotting and my husband panicked and rushed me to the hospital. everything was fine - our doctor found it all quite funny really (me and my husband running in at 2am my ...

I am going on the pill..any advice on the side effects?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am planning to go on the pills. Juust curious about the side effects? And also, once started on the pills , after how many days/months/weeks is it safe to have sex without protection? Thank You...

My gf cheated on me and we broke up-so how do I resist the temptation to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago i caught my girlfriend of 4 years, cheating with another man. it was friday night, she went out with her friend to a bar. she called me around 2:20 am and said she was on her way to my house, just down the street from my ...

One of my Dad's friend's sexually molested me while I was sleeping-not sure if my parents will believe me. What should I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - please help.i dont know who to ask about this...my parents often have big parties with many of their friends. its always very "uppity" and full of people i cant stand. everyones always drinking, and quite often since there are many spare rooms in my ...

Has anyone been though this problem? My boyfriend's foreskin is so tight it splits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has a problem with his penis which is affecting our sex life. He is 31. Basically, his foreskin has got very tight, and when he pulls the skin back it splits (very painful for him). He has seen his doctor four times about it, and is now ...

I need to go from my normal submissiveness to being more dominant in the bedroom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6681 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to be more dominant in the bedroom and I'm not sure how to do that. I am normally submissive in nature but for him I'm willing to try to let out the dominant side. I'm not sure how. Any help is appreciated..thanks...

Should I leave him as he doesn't want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for one and a half years now, and for the past 3 months he has refused to have sex with me. He is pleasant and cuddles and sleeps in the same bed. But no sex? I am confused and very very sad. Should I leave him? ...

We're still just friends-but I want more from him! Do I tell him what I'm feeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem figuring out this guy. I can't figure him out at all! When we first met we clicked so quickly. Slowly we started going out together as friends doing various things together. I could not help myself waiting for him ...

If a girl has unprotected sex..will she be more likely to get infected with AIDS, then the guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been sexually active since 20-year-old and i have been with this guy - J for almost 2 years. I am 22 this year. We both were virgin when we had our first time. At some stage of our relationship, i took estrogen pills to get rid of my pi...

My wife sleeps on the couch and we haven't had sex in a year..what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3 years,she sleeps on the couch or with the grandson instead of with me, we haven't had sex in about a year,and before that average was every six months after first year. We don't do anything outside of the h...

Don't feel emotionally stable enough to have one-night stands... Anything wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - hi , i havent had a boyriend for two years it doesnt bother me because im enjoying going out with friends the only problem is i haven't had a sexual partner since then either i just cant have a one night stand my friends all do but i dont feel ...

Scared to go all the way... How can I get over my fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost a year. We had many talks about wanting to go all the way. We have tryed many times but i always get scared. I want to so badly. He has even given me a ring. We love one another very much. Will i ever be ready? How ...

I'm fine with second-base and third-base, but my girlfriend says it's repulsive and I shouldn't do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - Hello! Me and my girlfriend have been with each other over 2 months, but she has a bit of an issue that she doesn't think she can get over. And that's that she doesn't want to have 2nd or 3rd base done to her, for the reason that she thinks it's ...

Help! I think I'm too fat and that's keeping me from having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - what do you do when you want to have sex with a guy but you think your fat and that is keeping you from doing it. I need help....

I need tips on good masturbation techniques. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - im having trouble i want to masterbate but i dont know any good methods on how to arouse my self and i get really horny can anyone give me good tips....

My ex and I started sleeping together again-but now he doesn't want me anymore! Please help-how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Please someone help me, I started sleeping with my ex just after he finished with his girlfriend at the time. My ex started giving me the wrong impression. i thought he was still really liked me, so i made the first move and now he has told me h...

I have a bf but this other guy keep pressuring me for sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have a serious problem with my guy friend who is constantly asking me for sexual favors. I told him no everytime he ask and he doesnt seem to get the point that I have a bf and I WONT AND WILL NOT CHEAT ON HIM!!! My concern is t...

How do I tell this guy..I want a relationship, not just sex-without him getting mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Hi.... i met a guy the other night, and we got on really well, there was a lot of chemistry between us and we were very very flirty but nothing happened as i had to leave early. We exchanged numbers and now im thinking he's just going to want sex ...

What is my sexual orientation and could things have been different for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Hi,i need some opinions,as i'm confused, at one moment then the other i know exactly what I am, and what I want. I'm 22yr old male, and since my teens I always had a sexual attraction to guys, but i knew that as I got older I'd marry a dream wo...

I don't want to go further with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

27 January 2006 (?) - My boyfriend says he wants to go further but I told him I wouldn't feel comftable. He said he could cum round after skool when my Mum woz out but now he keeps chickening out. I really don't know wot 2 do coz I think he's gone off me!...

We only have sex when I initiate it, because my wife says only sluts and whores initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - I am needing some advice. I love my wife very much and generally we a good life together but there is one area where we just don't agree. We have been married for nearly 5 years and together for 3 years before that. The sex was great before w...

Couldn't find my missing panties, until they turned up in my BF's computer desk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - Here is a really strange one to everyone. I was doing my laundry as usual and when I was putting it all up and away I noiticed something missing. Ok the article of clothing was my skimpy stringy black thong. Sure I was a little confused on where ...

How much masturbation is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm 13 years old, though rather mature for my age. However I masturbate 2-3 times a day sometimes. Is this too much? ...

Sis was coerced into sex with her boyfriend and she's been crying. Should I tell what I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - I thought i'd give this whole agony aunt thing a go as I like helping people, but to be honest I stumbled across this website while looking for advice to give my sister. Here's the situ: She's just 15, but looks older. About a month ago I walk...

Finally met the guy I want to lose my virginity to, but all we do is fool around!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and have stayed a virgin while waiting for the perfect guy to come along. Well I've finally met him, and am ready to have sex. We've fooled around but we've never had intercourse. He's 12 years older than me and every time we talk about ...

Husband warned me it was low but not "zero" low.. ! Is a f*** buddy the answer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My husband doesn't want sex, he warned me when we first met he had a low sex drive but I really didn't think he actually meant non-existant! I am suprised I ever managed to concieve our child. I have tried everything sexy undies, romance,...

Visions of her past sexual history haunt me..it's a serious problem and I need specific advice.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - How do I get over my wife's sexual history? Please be specific. I don't need any comments stating to "just get over it," or the "past is the past." I'm well aware of these things, but I just can't. I made the mistake of asking about her past, and ...

Our sex life has gone down hill...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My wife and I have been married for nearly 5 years and together for 3 years before that. The sex was great before we were married and even OK for the first few months after. However in the past 4 years it has been lousy. Any interaction between us ...

I believe I'm ready to have sexual contact with my boyfriend, but having trouble with it since Mom walked in on us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My mom once walked in on me giving my boyfriend oral sex. My boyfriend and I are 16 and we have been dating for 11 months. My parents weren't as mad that I was giving him oral sex as they were that I was doing it in their house and they didnt want ...

When I urinate..my vagina burns and it feels itchy! What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid A few nights ago I had sex with a guy I have liked for a long time. We First tried it in the jacuzzi but ended up on the bed in 5 minutes. Now, for the past three days, when i pee it feels a little burning, and I feel like the inside o...

She's just 13 but if I was to kiss her after she turns 14...could I be arrested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

24 January 2006 (M) - I'm 18. I was at a gig with mates last week and met a girl. physically and mentally she wud seem like a 17 yr old. i thought she was at college. I was later told she was just 13.I've decided to keep the relationship to strictly mates. However, ...

I've never had an orgasm! Are there any ways to increase my sexual arousal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - I am 19 years old and have a boyfriend, but have never had an orgasm. We have a very sexual relationship, but have never technically had sex. My problem is this: I am infrequently aroused by him. Most often, I am aroused by the very early stages ...

Got my period and suddenly I am craving sex! How do I stop this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - Hey guys this is Sweetie Pie here wondering if you could help me with this situation I have. You see me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now. Everything was going great until BOOM I get my peri...

Dating 14 months and when I ask him for sex and he rejects me! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - hi i've been with my boyfriend for over 14 months and when i ask for sex he always rejects me and never wants to do anything! is that normal?...

We haven't had sex yet and I'm scared I'll do something that will ruin our relationship. Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6687 days ago

24 January 2006 (M) - Hey, I'm an 18 year old male with a 16 year old girlfriend. We get along great and always have a good time around each other no matter what we do. There's just one problem with our relationship. Sex. We haven't had sex or any sexual contact yet ...

I have a discharge...please advise me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

24 January 2006 (?) - I have been getting really smelly discharge recently, its worse after i have had sex with my partner but its not the sex that is causing it. Its sort of like a watery discharge and it smells a bit fishy, its horrible. It doesnt matter how many times ...

Why did I ask the taxi-driver to get down and dirty with me? Feel appalled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I went out the other night and got drunk. On the way home, I asked the taxi driver if he wanted to go somewhere and made it clear I wanted sex. I don't know why I did this, I wasn't attracted to the man and after I asked him and he then said yes, I ...

I want to help her with the sexual problems she may have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

23 January 2006 (M) - Been seeing a girl for 7 months. She told me from the outset she has a low sex drive. But I'm finding that it has become very rare now. She makes a big deal out of needing her sleep and uses this as an excuse not to see me at times. She also seems ...

I get so sore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - hi im 19 and have only had sex about 4 times with the same partner, aftwards i get really sore for about a hour, is this normal or is there anyway to stop it? please help...

What is premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I have a question I am a bit unsure about. What is premature ejaculation? I thought it was guys not being able to control themselves and cumming before they wanted to or just too soon. Then I asked my boyfriend the other day and he thought it was ...

I had sex without protection on the first day of my period. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Could I get pregnant if i had sex with my bf while menstruating? without protection. I was having my first day and had sex with my partner and now im worried i could be pregnant. any advice. thanks...

I've lost my sex drive, and it's affecting my relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - i have seem to have lost my sex drive and it has now effected my relationship with my boyfriend why would this be?...

Any dangers of sex in a jacuzzi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - I want to try having sex with my hubby in our jacuzzi but I'm afraid of rumors that females can catch an infection from the water. Is this true? Please only individuals who have done it before answer. Thank you....

Could I have done my fertility any damage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - I made a huge mistake. I just had a cone biopsy of the cervix done and I'm in the process of healing. The doctor said not to put anything in my vagina until after 5 weeks. (Including no sex.) I was extremely intoxicated the other night. I had sex ...

How do I get over my significant other's sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - I'd like some advice from anyone who has a boyfriend/girlfriend who has slept with lots of other people before them. I can't seem to get past it and it's causing problems between me and the person of my dreams. Please help, thanks....

I don't think I'm sensitive enough for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - i dont think my clitoris is sensative? i have no pleasure from it either byself of a male. the only time i actually enjoy sex is when things are inserted inside me? do i need to get this checked out as my sex life is so poor because of it....

I'm 50 and I'm having erection problems...need some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6689 days ago

22 January 2006 (M) - dear sir or madam. i am a 50 yr old man. and have met thr girl of my dreams. i love her to bits and plan to marry her. at the morment i am having erection problems and it is really getting me down. can you help me??...

He rejected me so should I reject him too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - Can you picture this scene... My boyfriend and I have had a stressful week with work and stuff. Today, I suggest making love in the shower and he is up for this idea. He needs me to wash him anyway because he's got an injury. Anyway, he get...

We have great sex, but she's so possessive with me around her friends that I want to finish with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

21 January 2006 (M) - Hi I'm 32yrs old going out with a 49yr old lady. We do have great sex. She even insists on dressing up for me, which is good, but she's extremely possessive when her friends talk to me. Should I finish it?...

Can our relationship survive despite the bad sex? Any ways to improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been going out with my boyfriend for approx. one and half years now. our relationship is very good apart from the sex bit. Hes in his late 40s, Im 40. He enjoys what i do to him but Im tired of initiating it all the time. he doesnt seem ...