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Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband won't let me go back to dancing at the strip club so I'm leaving him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - My situation is far from conventional and I'm prepared to get some hate. I met husband while dancing at a strip club in Las Vegas. We fell hard and fast for each other, got engaged quickly and married quickly. I moved to Texas to be with him and ...

I've been intimate with my widowed aunt and now she wants me to live with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

28 February 2016 (M) - Hello guys I am 30 yrs married now n I am from India where relationships matter a lot. My question is about the physical relationship with my maternal uncle's wife( aunt) This goes around 6 yrs ago due to my uncles death my aunt got disturbe...

Would it be crazy to leave my husband who gives me everything for a man who couldn't give me what I have?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - I really need some advice.... Firstly what I'm about to admit is horrible - I'm not here for sympathy or understanding and I know I'm completely 100% in the wrong and nobody could be more disgusted with me than I am. I married my long term boy...

Facing sibling rivalry and family disinterest in my wedding. Should I delete them from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - Its not that I'm an attention seeker I'm the opposite but I'm starting to feel a damper on my wedding and its affecting me a lot lately. Had I known my family would not care about the wedding I would have eloped if i know how much it affects ...

I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous ...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

My troubled marriage makes me fantasize about someone else and want to cheat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a realtionship with my husband for 8 years. It has been rocky due to his demeanor, tone, and language. He's never taken stress well and he's had problems with little romances (not sure if sexual or non-sexual). He tried to cheat on ...

My husband chose this other woman over our daughter and me and now wants a divorce

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3010 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me out today. Well I'll start off by saying I'm recently separated and in the process of divorce. I was married for the last 8 years to a man who I really thought was the love of my life and everything I've ...

My wife wants to end our marriage says she loves me as a friend only

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

18 February 2016 (M) - Firstly, I love my wife very much and dont want to split up. She has recently suggested that she is not 'in love' with me anymore, sees me as a friend and that she wants to break up which I dont and want to make our marriage work. She had a bit of a ...

I feel like his mom always comes first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Please can I have advice on how to deal with my husband and his mother, she has always been very reliant on him but in the last few months since he became a house husband, he spends all his time on the phone to her and going round to her (she lives ...

How do I get over shock divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I am still very distraught and sad over my divorce that happened over a year ago. Mainly because I did not want the divorce to happen, nor did I see it coming. I was very much in love with my husband, we were married for 3 years and together for...

My husband has started texting women he's met through facebook. Should I worry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together about 7 years and he has recently been texting women through Facebook. He says it’s all innocent flirting. These women are in other countries. I expressed to him that I was uncomfortable with him talking to these ...

Is it love or just habit? Can a husband truly love his wife if he cheats for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Can a man cheating on his wife for four plus years really love her? Even if he was straying because of sex- something that he is not getting in his marriage? He doesn't love the other woman- don't know if he cares for her or just using her for ...

I feel ignored and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How would you feel if you had a husband who constantly was on viber to some of his family members and friends and when I say constantly I mean sometimes a two hour convo to one friend and then to another; and two hour convos to his mother on a daily ...

No sex and he's suffering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How important is sex in a marriage? I suffer from dyspareunia and because of this I'm not interested in sex at all. My husband understands my situation but I can see that he is suffering. What should I do? I don't get horny at all. The thought of ...

Is it normal to be turned on that your wife slept with other guys before you met her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

15 February 2016 (M) - When I met my new wife I had just gotten divorced. I had only been with my ex-wife so didn't have much experience. My new wife had been married twice and had two children. I'm not overly endowed so I was very nervous about having sex with her for ...

How can he be in love with the woman he cheated on me with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, how can a man be happy and in love with the woman he cheated on his spouse with? I was married for just over 3 years to a man who I really loved with all my heart. Someone I never could of pictured hurting me in anyway. He a...

My highly controlling husband is trying to make me feel insecure and jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - My husband is highly controlling. My husband is deliberately trying to make me feel jealous and insecure. It seems to be when he feels jealous of me or I don't do something he wants me to do or something he doesn't like. So it seems like he uses it ...

A threesome has turned into a disaster. My wife wants to spend the night with guy without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

10 February 2016 (M) - my wife and I have been married for twenty three years, recently she said she wanted to try a mmf threesome. She met a guy online who is older than her and after getting to know him we agreed to do it. The first two times we all had fun, the third ...

My younger husband likes to tell me that no one else will have me because I'm older

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I am older than my husband. Every time me and my controlling abusive husband have an argument he will say no one else will have me as I am old ( early forties, which no one believes my age) and will use a load of vulgar language towards me. I have ...

My husband's behavior gives me migraine headaches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I have been married for five years and recently developed migraine headache. The unfortunate part is apart from inadequate sleep, my husband is always the migraine headache trigger. He can be nasty and moody at times and this causes a reaction in ...

I'm married so why am I having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I put myself in a very difficult situation and don't know where to go from here. Recently I had an affair with a coworker.I'm a married woman and feel horrible about it. I wasn't planning on it, believe me. When I look back, I realize that we both ...

Can I check on a mobile phone to see if my husband has been using skype to do sex chats?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Is it possible to check on a mobile phone history if my hubby has been sex chatting with other women over Skype. The reason I ask this question is that I have seen a lot of Skype login on his web and app activity and he has never mentioned this, we ...

I found dirty underwear in the car that wasn't mine. Threw them away and now wondering if my husband is cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Hello, this is actually my first time posting on social media. I just feel I have no where really to turn to. Last week I found dirty underwear in my car that weren't mine. When I found them I thought nothing really of it and threw them away ...

Do I keep snooping around? I think my husband is up to something but he's denying it all

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Hi, Please can I get some advice, I think my husband is up to something... Several weeks ago my husband had an issue with his car so it had to be in the dealership workshop for 9 days and they were unable to give him a loan car. I gave him ...

How can I escape this love triangle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Please don't judge me. I am in love with a married man and somehow I am failing to leave even though I have been told many times to do so. It has been fine until yesterday. His wife found a message from me on his phone telling him I love him. He t...

I've changed my mind about children .....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - I made a deal with my husband before we got married in 2011. Back then I was young and immature. We considered each other soul mates. We both liked the care free lifestyle. Like playing video games, travelling and partying. We work in the gam...

I've fallen out of love with boyfrind and am looking elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years and recently I've started to feel different. Last year he broke the trust in our relationship but I stayed with him (stupid I know). He used to not really give much interest in our relationship ...

Is it worth it to force my wife to talk about a 2 year affair she had years ago? We never talked about it and she doesn't want to now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

6 February 2016 (M) - Ladies....Do you think its worth trying to insist that my wife and i talk about a two year affair that she had MANY years ago, that at the time, we never really did talk about,other than me telling her to end it or else it was going to be the end ...

Is my husband taking advantage of me because I contact my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I called my long time ex yesterday and my husband took it to the extreme. It was an honest text. A prophet at church shared some light about my life. I immediately told my husband a certain ex of mine told me the exact same thing. Out of curiosity ...

Is my premise possible? Is it decent folks, who try to live right, who are the people who get screwed over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Maybe it's because I am feeling really low these days- but increasingly feel that it's the decent folks and the ones who try to live right that get screwed over. The lying, cheating, selfish ones live peacefully. How come?...