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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I suspect my husband of cheating but can't confront him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi, where do I start! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 children. Over the last 3 years I've found several occasions where my husband had been trying to get the attention of other women by both texting and facebook. I'm ...

Tired of husbands childish traits. How should I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Sometimes I really dislike, maybe to the point of hate, my husband. Most of the time he's a great guy. But he has some childish traits that can go beyond irritating. He likes to push buttons and tease to the point where I get genuinely angry,...

Stuck in a bad marriage. What am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, I'm a mother of 3 at the age of 27. I'm tired of my husband anymore, it seems that he don't want us, me and my kids.. he always tells me that I'm useless and also he is not a hardworking type of guy..he can't even feed us 3 times a ...

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3761 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...

How much is too much in weekends away with friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Can anyone help me as a married girl of 32 decide where to draw the line on whats acceptable in marriage in regards to weekends away with friends. My partner has always been selfish and spent new year with his mates in edinburgh. I was working so ...

We are back together but nothing has changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Well I'm back again for more advice. I got back together with my ex, it's been about 6 months or more now. While I think he is a good dad and a great provider. I can't seem to get the feelings back for him. We have undergone counseling and ...

My husband told me he doesn't find my body attractive! What now?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - *Sorry if it is lengthy** I am in desperate need of advice. To be blunt to start out with, my husband reluctantly told me that he doesn’t find my body to be attractive. I am 24 years old, about to turn 25 next month. My husband is 28 going to...

My wife of 31 years is no longer interested in sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

23 January 2014 (M) - I really need to know what to do when my wife of 37 yrs. say she is not interested in sex anymore.I am 57 yrs and she is 51yrs....

I'm pregnant and husband is up all night playing games and not letting me get my sleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Dear Aunties/Uncles, I'm hoping you can help me sort through my feelings and figure out what to do, I feel like he can't understand what I'm going through. My husband and I are avid gamers, it's one of the things that brought us together when we...

How do I leave my violent husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have 4 young children together. My husband has always had a bad temper and drinks excessively, but both have gotten worse over the years. He screams and swears at me at least once a day for something ...

Do I choose my husband or my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - I need advice very badly. I'm in a predicament I never thought I would find myself in though I have seen it on the site before. I am having to choose between two men. Each have their strengths and weaknesses. One is my husband, not what you think or ...

How can I overcome this resentment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - I have been married for 2 years. My marriage started on a wrong note, because husband treated me awfully; neglecting me, treating me like his slave, demeaning, mental torture,just the treatment that no human being ever deserves. I think he wanted to ...

I hate my life but love my kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - I am a 41 year old woman married for 22 years now with 2 kids. I have spent 22 years with a man that cannot love,care or give affections. I live a cold and lonely life and spend it fighting with him all the time to acknowledge this. He says he is ...

What should I do to avoid making the biggest mistake of my life ???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and I have the best husband in the world but I recently met someone ! We are very close friends but somehow I am attracted to him ! I feel like he is the perfect match for him ! He is married too but I know he is ...

I cant stand this man but I love him! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I and my husband were in a relationship since 2010 and got married in 2012. From the very beginning, I and my husband fought almost every week over petty issues. We were in a long distance relationship so thought things would be fine once we move in ...

He's not physically violent but he is abusive, is there anything I can do or should I walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I have just joined this site, though I asked a question anonymously earlier before joining. After reading the reply I got I was wondering if anyone has any advice on abusive relationships? Its not a physically violent relationship but my husband has ...

Why can't men treat a good woman right, be faithful and stop that wondering eye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman married 25 years and two children. I married my high school sweetheart, who was a flirt... He cheated on me 17 years ago, and last year... I don't know about all the other years, but I have doubts. He will never admit that ...

I suspect my wife is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - I am married for my second time and feel I may have made a major mistake. She is a teacher and on the surface seemed to be the kind of person I was looking for. She was into family as at the time we both had kids about the same age at that tim...

S this friendship worth trying to save or is it time to move on because of the control her husband has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - I have this very best friend. She use to live 1300 miles away and now we live in the same city. She and her husband work together and are together 24/7, they also live on site where they work and I work there too. Now that she lives in the same city ...

How to protect myself while asserting my rights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

11 January 2014 (F) - I am originally from another country and married my husband at a very young age of 19. I was dependent on him for 8 years and had no skills or job to support myself. After 8 years of marriage I separated and moved back to live with my parents in ...

One of my husband's New Year's resolutions is to go a month without having sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - This seems a little ridiculous to me but here it goes. My husband decided on his new year resolution to quit drinking and smoking which I am proud of him for doing so. The third one is the one that is ridiculous to me. He wants to go a month with ...

He said I pushed him into getting married

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - After watching a movie with my husband about a very possessive women who was trying to force her bf into marriage and when he wouldn't she went absolutely nuts (funny movie by the way) My Husband looks over at me and says all women want is to get ...

How do I deal with my parents' divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

10 January 2014 (F) - My parents are getting a divorce, and it is the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life so far. How do I deal with this? Both of them have used me, and I have been the messenger, and while one of them has tried to keep being a pa...

I don't wish to lose my wife nor my friend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

10 January 2014 (M) - Hey everyone, I know this is going to sound bad but I really need some help. I have been married for 4 years with two lovely children, and although I love my wife and kids to bits I can't stop thinking about a friend of mine. We get on really well ...

I'm very pessimistic when it comes to lasting love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - Like many people, I always dream about having a love that lasts years and years. My parents divorced when I was about 4 years old (my mom was the one who asked for it) and I saw all the awful effects it had on them; my father became an alcoholic and ...

I feel stuck in my marriage. So much is unravelling and my husband seems not to care, while my daughter has big issues to address too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - My husband and I of almost 20 years had a fight over petty things mostly by me on Christmas Day. While preparing dinner for us that night he found a bag that I put in the laundry room that was given to me by my friend. It's a nice bag but I do not...

Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - Is it ok for a married man to text or chat with other woman? I have been married for 7 years and from the beginning I have expressed to my husband how I feel about this subject after reading a conversation between him and another women about how ...

Is my husband gay? Or is this an outlet for his bisexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

6 January 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years married for 3 and I have always known he is bisexual which has never been an issue for me until recently. I recently discovered that he has another Facebook profile that I am blocked on which...

My husband left me for my best friend. How is this all going to work out for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - OK, so here's my situation... it's a bit long, but still. My husband left me for my best friend the day after Boxing Day, and I found out because there was a photo of her in a bikini and him topless cuddling up to her in the snow in her garden saved ...

We need to set some ground rules for our trial separation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - I am 16 years older than my BF. We met 9 years ago and our relationship escalated quickly to the point of him moving to Texas from NY and building a house for us and my two kids. We have had our ups and downs. Mostly with his maturity. He was 21 ...

My husband walked out when we found out I was pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - My husband walked out when we found out I was pregnant with our second child in August. (We had been having fertility treatment so it wasn't a surprise). He has been suffering from mood swings and depression so the doctor gave him antidepr...

I'm excited and proud to be married, he hasn't told anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - I just got married after dating for 5 years. Due to having minor kids my divorce decree said I couldn't cohabit with anyone. My new husband understood that and supported me in getting married. It was a lovely short ceremony at his (now our) home ...

Our sexual interests are completely opposite. Can I satisfy my needs elsewhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - I am happily engaged to an amazing man; we are getting married this coming October. He is my best friend, and an incredible person. I love him so much, and the thought of him being hurt is just too much for me to bear. However, when it comes to...

I'm trapped in a bad marriage and I have feelings for a married man who's in a similar situation like me. Have any of you been in this situation before and did anything ever come of it especially when both of you had children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - Could this man be my soul mate? I have been married for almost 10 years, and I am an extremely faithful and understanding wife. Although people get married with the intention of loving in good times and in bad, I feel like I have been through ...

What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 January 2014 (M) - my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...

What problems could happen if we did become older parents

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - Me and my husband both want children; we're young professionals, aged 29 and 32, and we've been married for 2 years now. We're middle-class, own a Citroen and a Lexus, and our own house, and are fairly wealthy by local standards. I'm Italian-English ...