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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

How do I answer the doctor's question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - before i ask my question i really need to ask you not to consider my age, i just need help on the question thank you. I want to go on the pill soon because i have very heavy periods and every month they kill! I know some of the questions that the...

Does this sound like a STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Very personal question- I'm sexually active and I'm afraid I may have an STD. I have these tiny bumps on the inside of my vagina but only towards the bottom. They itch like crazy and hurt sometimes, especially if I scratch them. I get temporary ...

What is a good height for men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - What is a good height for a man?, I'm 5 10 or 5 11, and i'm 25 years old.. i have always wanted to be tall. Sometimes i ask my self whether im tall or short. i never seem to get the right answer.. my dad is well over 6 feet and my brother is 6 or ...

Can't stretch the foreskin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - i am 14 i was able to roll my foreskin back fully no problem but then one day i found that i couldnt stretch it even to see the tip of my pennis my skin arround it rips and i cant clean properly, it really itches. what should i do? thx...

How do I lose 30 pounds by March?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay this is a REALLY stupid question but i felt like asking it anyways. I met this boy and I like him a lot. of course he has a girl friend. we have a lot in common and im just wondering if he likes me... see stupid huh? well his little brother ...

My breasts are really hurting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - dear cupid my boobs have been killing me for a good while now and im really worried incase there is something wrong with them ive asked my friends does this happen to any of them and they said no so im kinda scared. . . i dont no what to do in...

Condom came off inside me, am I still at risk for an STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - am i at risk for a std if the condom came off inside of me? but we didnt notice but he found the condom inside me within 3minutes , but we continued sex with a new condom. am i still at risk for std?...

I don't like what I see in the mirror

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone I need some advice I dont feel countable with my body i just dont like wat i c in the miroor especially my face i been breaking out so bad i have the worst self esteem wat can i do ? ...

Should I go to this party to see her? I'm vulnerable due to severe health issues and depression right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I am in a really unsure position right now. Tommorow Im going to this social night out and there will be this girl there who I have a big crush on. Now I havent seen her in around 2-3 months and that time she did have a crush on me. However I was ...

Was a broken condom accidental or otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Something I've always wondered. I had a friend who became a friend-with-benefits. A couple months back we got together. Beforehand we were talking. She knew I wasn't seeing anyone else and when the subject turned to sex, she asked me if I've ...

I really like him, but he told me to go on home after a few minutes! I was quiet and a bit drunk.. how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - This guy added me on facebook like a year ago now, we got talking, and nowdays we're always texting and on the phone. Ive wanted to meet him for so long! but something kept pulling me back. i finally went to see him yesterday. He took ages to come,...

Sex is not like it normally is, what could be wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - my partner has not been having sex like a normal, random guys on the street he does complains of emptiness in him, tiredness. What kind of drug can be prescribe for us, or solutions....

My mother is still killing herself with food

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, I asked a similar question a few months ago and although most of the responses were very helpful, things haven't improved. I'm still very concerned about my mother's health and eating habits, she's very overweight and binges on things...

Is my step dad on drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Okay, I need to know this I suspect it but I gotta know Now here are signs I've seen in my step-dad if you work up for 16hrs then get home around 10p then stay up until 1am and wakes up at 6am every day, so 4-5 hours of sleep a day. doesn't ...

I have started the gym for the first time so need some tips for dieting!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Hey guys just 1 week back I started gym, its first time I joined gym so I want to get some tips from those who making workouts. what food I gotta have for dieting food that should helps me to reduce fat am 83kg's damn I have to mention that. pls ...

Bad burning pain in vaginal area after sex. What can it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - hey everyone, so heres my question. everytime me and my bf have sex i get really bad pains around the entrance of my vagina in a ring shape. It stings really bad and is like a burning pain. it gets so bad that we have to stop having sex becau...

My breasts are swollen and swore, what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My breast are swollen and sore for the last week or so . But now there are still big and swollen but not sore . I took a test last night and it came back as no. Just wondering what's going on with me?? My last peroid was over on oct 7 and we had...

I'm having weird issues with my vaginal area. Who should I talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - im really scared. im onyl 13 and im going through things im my life right now that i know i shouldnt be and top of that im worried aboot my vaginal area. my cliterus is really red and sore, it seems swolen if this is possible? and i just dont know ...

Strange odor and I'm embarrassed to see the doctor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - umm i have a weird sort of odor on my clit and around it? ive used generic yeast infection treatments, but nothing seems to work. its a sort of weird kind of fishy smell....and no matter how much i was its stil there..i refrain from letin my partn...

Each time I mess up there seems to be less love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Sometimes on accedent i hurt my gf and i dont mean too. i never want to hurt her. its the stupid small things that i say that hurt. when she gets hurt i get hurt because i didnt mean to do it or say it. i need to know if were right for each other ...

How do I put on weight and make my boobs bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - pls help me Im too skinny and my boobs are very small. Im 17 years old and i think that im never gonna get large boobs, my confidence has break down in pieces pls help how to get large boobs and how to gain weight pls do answer ...

What should a guy do about hair down below?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - what exactly should a guy do with his pubic hair? i seem to have alot, although i'm not sure how much alot really is... Do any girls have some advice or suggestions?...

Am I going to get an STD from having anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend had anal...I read somethings on here...he dont have anything that i know of neither do i .so does that mean im going to get one or have an std already ?...

Questions about pregnancy before I see my doctor next week.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I am 5 weeks pregnant and I just have some questions on about how much weight I can pick up. I'm a pretty strong female (I think) and I don't want to overdue myself and hurt my baby but I don't want to come off as one of those annoying pregnant ...

Did he really mean that he doesn't want to be a boyfriend because he can't be a good one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - So me and my ex broke up 1 month ago. We were together for almost 5 months, which was my longest relationship. Anyway, he always said that if we broke up that he wanted us to stay friends. I usually stay friends so that's not a problem for me. Now ...

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...

What's been your experience with the morning-after pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I had to take the Plan B emergency contraceptive this morning after a condom slipped with my boyfriend last night and I had forgot to take my birth control. I have read that it is 85% effective and am just curious if anyone has had experiences with ...

Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you? ...

Pregnancy tests have come back negative, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - My periods are 4 days late. I took 2 pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I've never missed periods before and they are always on time. I had sex 2 days after my last periods. Could i be pregnant?...

Is the pill making me emotional or is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Girls. I am really very emotional and to be honest, a bit of a mess everytime my period arrives. I get so low and cry at pretty much anything that makes me even remotely sad. I am on the pill. Is it the pill or just normal? I can deal with it mys...

Life after depression and big relationship problems, is there such a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Thank you in advance for reading this. This is not a short post and I am not in a very stable state of mind so the writing may reflect that. And thanks again for bearing with me. And I really appreciate every piece of advice I can poss...

Is it a problem I can't fully retract my foreskin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I can't retract when i have an erection; but when it's not erected; i can retract it but i never went under the head because i'm scared the skin is so tight it won't go back like it was :/ Is it a problem or is it ok if i just leave it like that? I ...

How do I get their father to take an interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again an...

What changes after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - So im just going to be out and open with this question. What happens to your body after you have sex for the 1st time? (and your under 18) Btw im not pregnant...

Retracting foreskin of penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - I'm 17; I can't retract the foreskin of my penis for my head to show up.. Well I sometimes can, but i'm afraid to pull the skin below the head because it is so tight i'm afraid it won't go back over the head :s And it's quite hard to get it pull dow...

I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I'm getting sick and tired apart from frustrated by the fact that my boyfriend doesn't want to give me oral... this might turn out really long, in a way I just want to vent, but also some words of advise or opinions that can make me feel better w...

I have been unemployed for ages, what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I've been out of work for a long time and i want to do something, even if its only a temporary job. I have thought about signing up with recruitment agencies, but the only recruitment agencies i can find have office and retail jobs. i have had ...

Worried about this persistent discharge

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Alright. It's been about, what? 3 months? going onto 4? And I feel horrible and disgusting. It started after my period in august. There was A LOT of discharge. I thought it was normal at first, because my period just ended. But for the rest of ...

She gets depressed when her period keeps her from having sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 October 2010 (?) - My girlfriend is very sexual and we have sex almost daily. Her period can be irregular at times, although it is never very heavy. The problem is that she gets VERY upset and depressed when her period comes because she doesn't like to have sex ...

My daughter told me she is bisexual and I don't know how to handle this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My 17 year old daughter has been trying to tell me she is bisexual for the last six months.I have responded with kids today are bicurious and that is what she is doing. Each time she mentioned it I would cut off the conversation, and say I can't ...

Did he leave me because he gave me an std?

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25 October 2010 (F) - i met my byfriend in 06 he walk away from me april 26,10..every year he has left me 1 time,i nver new why?he gave me an s.t.d.maybe that's why he left me,the reason i know he gave it to me is because i suffer from uterus fibriod and i go to ...

Why is my tongue swelling up after giving oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - The last three times I've given head, the lump of nerves at the center of the bottom my tongue has swelled up...big time, to the size of a blueberry. Within a few hours the swelling has subsided and I've encountered no other issues. neverthel...

Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...

How do I know if I smell normal "down there"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, you must get this question all the time... sorry... Ok here goes... how do I know if I smell normal down below?! After a day not showering it smells like... scampi fries... sorry... also a bit tangy. Now is this normal? It's not hugely o...

I've lost my libido and don't know where to find it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and female and ever since I discovered sex I've been obsessed with it. Until recently. I've realised that although I still enjoy attention from men and love to flirt and dress up, when it comes to sex I have lost interest. I've been with ...

Attention deficit disorder or just plain abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I really need some help here. My fiance (or ex fiance - we ended it last night) is ADD and a month ago we moved in together although he is still in the same house with me and my 3 kids. Everything I say gets shot down in flames. I am always the pe...

I love him but sometimes I hate him too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - need advice i have been married for 6 years my husband works i also work my husband complains about money and thinks i should work more hours i do every thing at home washing cleaning etc all the shopping on my own he does nothing he dont kiss ...

Is it normal to have a large clit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Umm...i really don't know how to say this but. i have a very large clit. Is this normal? does other women have this? im not sure. so please answer my question it would really help me out?...

Boyfriend left me because I miscarried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - ok, where do i start. i guess it all started 4 years ago. I was with my first boyfriend for ten months. he broke up with me and 2 weeks later he was with my best friend. i lost the 2 of them. my other best friend left too. i was so alone. then came ...

I have a 30% chance of living so he dumped me for his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

23 October 2010 (M) - I fell for this man, he was everything to me. I was diagnosed with cancer, which is spreading to my lungs...I have a 30% chance of getting through it...but when I saw messages on Kellen* phone (I was using it because mine was broken) I noticed ...