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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Two years and I'm still not over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - My life is just miserable. My ex dumped me about 2 years ago. I'm moving on very very slowly. I blocked his Facebook page, deleted all the pictures, put away everything that would remind me of him. I even moved abroad and focused on myself only. ...

Want my ex boyfriend back but how. running out of ways

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was ...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywher...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

Is our relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time wit...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

I have never felt love like this before, if I'm to do something about this, what would people advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - My boyfriend and I split up almost a year ago. He had to move to abroad due to work. And, because of my work and financial position I wasn't able to go with him. We tried to make it work, but unfortunately the distance and the pressures of bo...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...

My ex said he made a mistake breaking up with me and now I can't stop thinking of him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I was in relationship with a guy for a couple of years. I was so crazy on him like I loved him so madly and I trusted him to the core. But he broke up with me and went with other girl. First it was so hard for me even I tried committing suicide. But ...

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time ...

My ex is confusing me.. Why is he still explaining himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Me and my ex broke up a week ago. I ignored him and his texts since then but he keeps msging me. Today he msged me asking why i was ignoring him... So i said he made his decision. I respect it but I'm not settling for any less than what I want (he ...

Do we have a chance of making this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are both introverts and both don't find it easy opening up to other people. A few days ago, we woke up one morning and unexpectedly from nowhere he said he wanted to talk about our rela...

He is immature doesn't want commitment and told me to find someone else. Do I just move on then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I'm a girl who is pretty and independent. I've come a long way to U.S to pursue my dreams.I never had a relationship as I was too much into a one sided relationship for 7 years hoping that one day it would turn into love which never happened. I ...

I'm trapped in the past and don't know how to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Its been 4 months not seeing or communicating with my ex-bf. I still think of him but this time with anger cause he almost took me virginity for a lie. He lied to me about being single, loving me and caring for me. He was inlove with another girl ...

How do I ask him to be in a relationship again? I'm afraid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3280 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - So I've liked this guy for 3 years now, and 2 years ago we went out for around 5 months. He broke up with me really unexpectedly and I was heartbroken for quite a while. It made everything really awkward and made me really unhappy during that time. ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3280 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

Telling him how much I love him isn't working, so what's the best way to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Two months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 3.5 years after an argument. We had been having lots of arguments and it wasn't our first time breaking up. Now, 2 months later, I feel like I made the biggest mistake of my life and I desperately want ...

We've come to the understanding that whatever was our relationship when he got on the airplane! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married about 2 years. On April 8th I took him to the airport because he had a friend buy him a ticket out and he told me he couldn't handle my crazy life. Since he left I have gotten an awesome job, and I am making the ...

Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests? I fell out with a guy I had a brief fling with. He is one of these smooth talkers, who likes to chat the women up - so I said I couldn't cope with his flirting around etc anymore. So anyway, we fi...

It is upsetting to know I have been used by him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - How do I get over a break-up. I've been seeing this man for over a year and he was my world. I loved him and I did anything I could for him. We talked everyday non-stop and I thought he felt the same. He has now moved away due to work so we have ...

Almost 9 years together. How should I tell my now nine year old son, that his stepfather will not be in his life after I breakup with his stepfather?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man, and I am confused. I want to break it off with him because he is not a good father to his kids. He has not seen them in two years and is not paying his child support. As a matter of fact, he stopped working ...

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if...

Shall I encourage him to communicate, give him space or abandon trying? What is the best way to encourage a male introvert to communicate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3284 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - Hello! This is kind of awkward, but I've got nothing to lose. Please forgive me because of my English, it is not my mother tongue. I've liked an introvert guy in my class for a long time now. I(21/f) have a feeling that he(22/m) is also interes...

Is my Bf too good to be true? I like him, my family don't like him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I just recently got into a relationship with this guy. I've had a thing for him a long time and he has too. so we decided to make it official. The problem is he is a bad boy. Half of my family doesn't even like him already, without even kno...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

Is this a case of Grass is Greener Syndrome? She broke up with me so suddenly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - Hello people. I am hopeing to get some advice here. I will keep it short: She is 21, and I am 10 years older. As far as I know she only had one real BF before me, and he cheated a lot on her. We have been together for about 8 months. It h...

One minute he wants space, the next minute he's worried...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I had to break it off with him 5 days ago because he told me he wanted space. Would come back tell me he missed me and go on as normal. But if i asked about us he'd say he wasnt ready for a relationship, the demand of it. I waited for nearly a month ...

Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning ...

I still love him, I like the sex but I can't move on if this carries on can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around so much that I ended our relationship. But now I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with him, and even though our sex is great, and we get on better then we ever did together, I feel like I'll never get over our...

Is our relationship really over? Is it selfish of me to want more from our relationshhip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years since I was 16; we met in college and now he is university and I work full time. The past year we have both had our problems with families, mine has been awful and he is the light in all of it and what mak...

Wife refuses intimacy, except for procreation. Threatens to deny access to children. I can't put up with her behaviour. What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

19 May 2015 (M) - It started almost the first month we were married, there was no intimacy. After years of no intimacy and no physical contact in our relationship, I was very resentful. The only time we had intimacy or physical contact was when she wanted children...

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards...

Is it time to end this relationship? He only seems to care about getting sex for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Hi guys, I am here to share a problem that I am going through. My relationship with my boyfriend is going through a very rough patch, and I want to know what exactly should I do in this situation. I am dating this guy and he is my first and a...

Should I just go ahead and divorce? Is he likely to cheat again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - We have been married for 13 years. Today my husband confesses he has cheated on my twice. He says whatever my verdict is, I am his only love and will always be. I am sure that this is the first time and I regret that we are apart now as I moved t...

How do I get rid of him? I thought he was nice but now he's driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3287 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - I was wondering if someone can help. I met a guy, and I thought he was nice, I was honest from the start in that I am not looking for anything but friends plus I didn't fancy him one bit but he seemed nice. (I was with someone I was really in lo...

My ex girlfriend broke up with me because of trust issues but I don't think she has moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

17 May 2015 (M) - Hello Agony Aunts Recently my Ex girlfriend and I ran into some troubles in our relationship. We've been on and off because of some poor choices I've made so she ended up having some trust issues with me. I tried really hard to show her That I ...

Separated from Husband and he won't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hello, never done this before so please excuse my inexperience. I've been with my husband total 17 yrs. been married for 6 yrs. this May 2015. We never had fights just disagreements here and there. He also treated with love, kindness, respect ...

Depressed ex gf wants time and space. How can I help her without pushing her away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

17 May 2015 (M) - Hi everyone. So my gf and I have been dating for around 6 months now. I truly thought we had a special relationship and initially things were very good between us. Our love life was great and she was extremely happy around me when we went to do ...

I lost my grandfather and my boyfriend in the same week and 5 months later I'm still not coping well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3287 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Having a hard time, not sure where to begin. I lost my Grandad whom was very close to us and split up with my boyfriend the same week as his funeral. Everyone around me is sad and my Nan isn't coping well but is refusing help, to leave the house et...

Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Or is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Recently my ex came around again after breaking up with the new girlfriend we started talking slowly ... and the next thing you know we hung out together and of course that lead to sex. he...

I'm feeling insecure. Almost three years datiing and we know each other very well. Have we hit the comfort zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I'm scared. This is my first long relationship and I don't know if we've hit a comfort zone or if we're falling apart. We've been together 2 years and 10 months. He says I love you but not all the time like he used to (every day). It feels l...

Boyfriend doesn't want a relationship but acts like he's in love with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago but things are very confusing. He told me he doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want to be with me, but it's not because he doesn't have feelings for me. Since we broke up he's been making excuses t...

I contacted abusive ex and am regretting it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - Dear all. I finally got out of an emotionally abusive relationship ten weeks ago. It was very toxic. He gave me the silent treatment for weeks at a time, used to slam down the phone on me, was unreliable and a whole host of other things. Anyway, I ...

I'm at a loss as to why this non-committal man is now ignoring me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I am a bit confused and upset. I started to see a non committal man a while ago. Who kept changing his mind about what he wants. He decided he wanted a relationship then changed his mind. We still met up some weekends I stayed but was aware he ...

She was amazing and beautiful and was the kind of girl I always dreamed about being with and it kills me that I let it go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

15 May 2015 (M) - To anyone My ex and I broke up after two and a half years almost a year ago. It was somewhat mutual. I went away for the summer to work in another country and while we said we were on a break we talked everyday and acted like everything was normal. ...

I want to stop this secret relationship with this girl but not sure what to do. What advice can you suggest please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I’m in a relationship with a girl like me. We’re both straight but we really like each other that we end up together. This kind of relationship is really weird and new for us. I don’t want others to know about us cause I feel embarrass—I’...

I didn't even notice he was cheating on me .......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - My ex cheated on me repeatedly throughout our relationship, until I had a bad car crash and spent a long time recovering. He would later tell me that it made him realise what he had and he didn't want to lose me. I thought everything was going ...