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writes: Dear cupid im going through something right now my boy friend is in jail for a couple of months and me and my girlfriend was hanging out with her boyfriend and his cousin and i really like him i dont know what to do should i tell my bf thats its over so i can talk to my girls boyfriend cousin or should i not hook up with him andwait for my bf....
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reader, pica +, writes (24 August 2006):
Please don't dump your boyfriend while he's in jail - it's hard enough for him in there. If it's only a couple of months then I'd say wait and if you feel the same then finish with him once he is out and can get on with his life. I know this seems harsh on you but the situation could get messy otherwise.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Your probably feeling lonely and vunerable because you miss your boyfriend and seeing your best friend loved up with her boyfriend makes you miss being loved up yourself. Knowing that you cant get to your boyfriend for the attention that you need you are focusing on your friends boyfriends cousin because he is available and around you and your friends quite alot, so it is conveineint. I think sub conciously you just want some love and affection. You must sit back and think about how much your boyfriend means to you, is it worth losing him because your going to be lonely for the next few months? You have your whole life to be with him. I suggest that you wait until he gets out and if you still feel the same then finish it with him. Good luck hunny.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Hi Nay920,
It depends on what u feel. Are u in love with your boyfriend or is it this guy you have feelings for? Think of yourself first and follow your heart. I am afraid no one can make this decision for you. You have the right to be with the one you love and who loves u back.You shouldnt be with anyone becos of a sense of devotion.Be with the one that makes you happy.I would advise u to make a choice and stand by it.
If u decide to go out with this guy then u have to let your boyfriend know.It will be better to tell him what is going on becos he wont be happy with you if someone else tells him.
Take care now.
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