A
female
age
41-50,
*one_none
writes:if someone hurts you by always being suspicious of things, being jealous and extremely inconsiderate, would that hurt your self-esteem a lot?like a friend who gets clingy and every time you have to do other things, they suspect that you are lying and are purposely ignoring them. and they constantly annoy you to cancel your other plans and give the time to them instead.you bring this to their attention over and over again but they never change though they make you feel they will. you let go of them.would be fine if they send you an apology after a long time admitting to being jealous/insecure and being sorry about hurting you. and they let you know that you can contact them if you ever want to try being friends again?or does it sound selfish of them to ask you to contact them if you want to be friends again?
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (4 February 2009):
I can understand how it could hurt your self esteem. It's like they treat you like you're stupid or something.
I'd give them a week or two of attention, not let myself get emotionally attached to them in the least bit. If they start acting funky again, walk away!
Keep in mind, they will be on their best behavior at first. Once the get comfortable, they may start acting up again.
Stand your ground!
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