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writes:hey everyone!i have a question to ask:ok. lets say X and Y are a girl and a guy. and they are together.Y has no plans of giving up his bachelor life. that is what he tells his family (who he is very close to). he says he has no plans of marrying X for a long time.X on the other hand is all sure about the fact that Y will be marrying her. and she tells his family so, and hers as well.a guy so close to his family,would not lie to his own parents (who are literally his life), or would he?is he just messing around with the girl, then?sorry for the abstract question, but it really has a point. cuz i am a friend of Y. he told me as well that he is not marrying.. weirdwho should i trust? X or Y? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 February 2009):
Well what has the girl got to make her think they are going to get married and live happily ever after?
If he has not got down on one knee with a ring recently, then it means they are not getting married.
You need to get him and her to have a serious talk. She may be after a guy to settle down with while he may be wanting someone to date for a while before he heads off to see the world / establish his career.
She could be leading her self on by picking up on every little thing he mentions about the future and making it sound like he wants to settle down with her and the kids.
Get them to be straight with each other. If she is desperate for marriage then she needs to find someone who is too. He for his part shouldn't be with a girl who wants a long term relationship if he has no plans to formalise this and just wants a girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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