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I'm losing my V-card on V-day... LADIES, how can I make this perfect?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *nCut23 writes:

Hey my names Connor im 16 and a bit confused. see heres the thing....im a virgin. i aint ashamed o it. im with the most amazing girl in the world. shes 15 and has had sex before. we've been talking about it alot lately and she says she wants to be my first. i want to, i REALLLLLY want to. im just scared. I mean i know it seems silly but i dont want to disappoint her. i no its my first time and she understands (shes said all this) is just stupid male Pride (lads should know where im coming from here).

So girls i really need your help here. Please reply and tell me what would be the prefect night for you's. we've planned for it happen on valentines day so i got till then to give her the experience she deserves. its embrassen asking for help but girls no what they want. so girls help me out here. i wanna know from the present to the cuddlin afterwards. Anything you have will be greatly appreciated. xoxox

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A male reader, UnCut23 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

UnCut23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

UnCut23 agony auntto everyone that answered thanks very much. Been a great help :D:D:D

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A female reader, 80sfashionista. United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

80sfashionista. agony auntWell since its gonna be v-day.

try and pick a romantic scenario

with rose petals ,candles, and soft music.

make her feel special thats first of ALL.

tell her you love her [well if you really do]

AND enjoy the ressst! (;

[watch porn for further experience]

LOL

-Roxxi

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

i agree, i mean.. i can tell you what i had my first time. but the only way to really get it right is to ask her, OR just make your best judgements on what she likes. you know her better then any of us. ill tell you my first time was

a really romantic dinner that he cooked himself, and had the house just the two of us, then when we were done eating dinner we just starting to watch The Notebook, i had never seen it before and we cuddled and made out a lot, and he just slowly moved down my body with kissing on my neck, and just made out for a long time haha, but thats because i enjoy that stuff, (you have to ask her what she enjoys) and then we went up to his room and there were candles every where, and it smelt like amazing, and he had rosepetals on the bed and it was the best experiance of my life. but as the other girl said also, thats what I like, you have to ask HER what SHE likes... she is the one having sex not me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

yu juss said it. ladies know what they want. so ask HER wat she wants. not us - we all have different opinions and stardards so the only way to get the true 100 percent fool proof answer - is to ask her yourself.

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