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writes:hi im chris and i am a virgin. i have turned down many opportunities for sex bacause i am scared i will stay limp or not be able to find the correct entrance.. is there any easy way to find the right hole when your in intercourse?Chris
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Well hopefully this is good advice seeming as im an experienced girl! x
You shouldnt be worried about it- this is abit different but when my boyfriend first was going to finger me, i was worried because i thought it would be too tight. i didnt know what whole he was going to put it in and if it would hurt- that sounds rediculas seeming im the one with the vagina but there you go.
dont worry about getting the wrong whole, there is only one haha. just get the mood going then rub her alittle until she is wet- do some oral before getting into the real thing! then rub the tip of your nob along her clit path and you will find it- dont forece it in go slowly and kiss her at the same time, gently so you dont kill the mood! xx good luck! hope this helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): hi chris im caz you do it when you ready first dont worrie about it as that can course you not to get erection cos your worried do four play first while move your hand down to her vagina so you can feel the hole then just guide your penis in i hope this helps just dont worrie about it...
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reader, Devil Crazy  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 Well I'll say it is pretty hard to get into the wrong hole, although I am a virgin myself too...here's what you can do:1). Trace the location of her vagina first before you put your penis into it (with condom on, of course). It would be easier if you are facing her, e.g. missionary position2). Identify the anus first...the other hole is obviously her vagina, ask her if you are unsure.3). Make sure both you and her are completely aroused before entering...test her degree of wetness first, to ensure that she is ready...
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reader, lookingatyou +, writes (16 December 2007):
It's a good question! If i'm going to be perfectly honest and somewhat explicit, it can still not "go in" so easily even when you're experienced, so i wouldnt worry about it too much. i don't know how much experience youve had with a girl, but believe you me, when the time comes it will be fairly obvious to you where it goes. The hole you want it to go in will be wet for starters. a lot of women like to guide guys in, and if shes on top then shell be pretty much in charge of that area anyway! good luck, and relax!!
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reader, Lewiis +, writes (13 December 2007):
 first of all when your about to have sex, play with each other.. do a bit of foreplay. get her a little wet, if you do this it will make it a lot easier for you to slip inside..
Lewis
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (13 December 2007):
You should turn down sex because you should be worried that you'll become an addict and mess up your life and not because you'll be limp.
That's another problem of starting to have sex at an early age.You are so excited that you can't even relax and control your feelings.In such a state you won't be able to tell which is the vagina hole and which isn't.The older you become the more you know a woman's body and you can even have sex with your eyes closed and not miss it!
However,to answer your question,your girl knows best where her cunt is and she should hold your penis and guide you there.It's really her part to guide you there.There are other sexual positions that are much easy for you to see what you are doing.Find out for yourself.
Stop thinking about sex so much and enjoy your youth.When the right girl comes along you won't miss and if you do she'll guide you into her.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): First time sex is always something of a fumble, especially if she's a virgin as well.
As for finding the right hole, she'll tell you soon enough if you're heading for the wrong one! Plenty of foreplay - kissing, fondling etc. coupled with some visual exploration before you get down to it - and you'll see for yourself what goes where.
If she's not a virgin the chances are she'll get hold of your todger, aim it at the right place and tell you to put it in.
Whatever you do, don't get anxious about the whole thing and stop worrying. If you worry about going limp, the chances are that's exactly what will happen. It gets better each time as you get to know each others bodies.
Phil
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