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writes:i'm a 43 years old mother of 2, i just had a divorce after 19 years of marriage.it took me a while to get back to dating again and when i did the problem started.i have sex a lot and with more than just one guy.my friends told me that it's normal after a divorce because i need to feel wanted and desired by men again.i'm afraid to give a bad image to my kids specialy my 14 years old daughteris this normal after a divorce? is it right? if not how can stop? please i need answers.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 How do your daughters know you're having so much sex? If you have to ask this question I think you already know the answer. It sounds like you're trying to be a teenager. Why did you divorce?
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (29 November 2007):
i agree with the person belowdont expose your daughtersi suppose it is quite normal because you have just split from someone that you thought you loved but found out you did not really. are you feeling scared almost to get into a long term relationship in case you get hurt like before? hope this helps. please feel free to mail me at anytimeelliexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): It is certainly something which you should not expose your daughter or any children to. What you decide to do with partners is your business, but DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS KNOW YOURE FOOLING AROUND LIKE THIS. It would give them the impression that it is quite acceptable. If you still confused how would you feel if you daughter started behaving like this. Keep it very, very quiet. You are influencing your childrens values and morals so make sure they get the ones you want them to have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Yes it's not uncommon for women to play the field. But you must be discreet about it as it is not giving a good impression to your children if you are having different men in and out of your house. I'm divorced too but my children only ever met one of my partners as we had been exclusive for a few months.
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