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female
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41-50,
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writes:My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me cause she says I am smothering her and she needs her space. She says she loves me and can't replace me, but she can't fix me anymore, she can't even fix herself. She is an alcoholic and is seriously over stressed with work. Work is her number one priority. Can we ever find one another again. She says she wants us to remain best friends what should I do. I know I need to work on myself, but she went out and slept with someone right away cause she says it makes her stop think of her depression and mine.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 She obviously has decided you are not compatible and sleeping with someone else right away is her way of dealing with things. NOT the right way to go about it I might add. She seems to have far more hang ups than you do but she felt you were too smothering with her. You need to move on from her and find someone who will really love you and this time, remember what she said though and bear it in mind when you go into your next relationship.
This relationship, in my opinion has ran its course, move on now and be happy to remain friends if you can do that.
Eve
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