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Women all around him but he says he's just being friendly

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Question - (6 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is says he quite honest and this is making me insecure. Weve spilt up a few times and things have happened where he done stuff. And even though were trying again i dont think i trust him. Here is what i mean. Everytime he goes somewhere hes always got to make some kind of comment that some women fancy him! Be the supermarket.pub. When he driving.hes friend with alot of his exs and texts or when he gos out with his mates they r there! Which i dont like at all. As im not aloud to go out with him and his friends. He says hes teaching one of his friend on how to pull women. He went out the other drinking allnight and he slept at his mates! They had a party but im not sure if women went! Im too afraid to ask! He didnt text me till 5pm that day! I might say that im changing my hair and dont know what to do with it. He will say something like. The girl in my local pub has lovely red hair have it like that. Which makes me think well hes obviously looking at her aint he! He went to a sex party at a pub last wk or course he was the only male surrounded by women! And he got a women from the pub to walk on his back cos it was hurting him! This is just a few of what happens! Everything always has to do with women! Hes 30 for god sake!Does this man have no respect 4 my feelings at all! I cant stand it! Ive told him he just says im only being friendly it doesnt mean anything! I worry bout the stuff i dont know. I dread it when he goes out cos he like the attention in a town full of his exs! Yes there been nearly 100. I dont live in the same town so i dont c what goes on!but when weve been on a break i know hes slept with others hes told me! Its not me overreacting is it?

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (6 May 2009):

niki20 agony auntthats not a boyfriend. i think his behavior is really odd i dont think hes ready to commit. dump him and find another.

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A female reader, louise100 United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

Why exactly are you with this idiot? Talk about big ego! Dump him, after all 100 other women have so there must be something wrong with him!Sounds a bit like a mummys boy to me.

There are loads of lovely men out there who dont have this problem, so dump him and find one of them. His behaviour is truely odd.

take carex

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntDump him, he sounds like an idiot and you sound like you deserve a lot better! If my boyfriend acted like this I would be as far away from him as possible! X

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