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Will my husband-to-be know that I've had sex before him?

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Question - (7 November 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2012)
A female Nepal age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I had sexual relation with my friend. Now i am getting married. I am worried about that can my would be husband will know that i had realtion with someone before marriage.

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A male reader, Htsn47 United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

Htsn47 agony auntNo, there is no way he can tell. Some men will expect a virgin to bleed a little her first time, but frequently that does not happen. And the hymen is very commonly broken from non-sexual activities, so it is not a reliable indicator. (Sadly, it is sometimes used as one but that's simply wrong!)

So no, relax. He will not be able to tell.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

person12345 agony auntThere's no way he can tell unless you tell him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012):

Yeah, it's not like honesty is important in a marriage.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntnot if you don't tell him...

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