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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've got an issue here more with friends but it's still relevant. One of my friend (friend a) has a boyfriend but my other two friends (friend b and c) really don't like him. I know it's not unusual but it gets to the point where they are really unsympathetic with her and have even considered breaking them up. The worst thing is they constantly complain that she spends all her time with him and ignore her for that reason (she doesn't spend that much time away from us I think she's actually managing her time quite well). The thing is I've recently got a lot closer to this guy who they don't like. I know I shouldn't stop talking to him because they don't like him (and I have no intention of) but I don't want to be pushed away if it got more serious .Friend c will not say anything to my face but would probably complain behind my back but b would say things right to my face about how much she hates him.I haven't told them and I would really love to share it with them it's just I feel if I do that they will a punish me for it and I don't know what to do ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 December 2011):
 I'm an adult... recently i had a friend tell me I had to make a choice between my friendship with her and my boyfriend.when push comes to shove the person making the request is the loser... had my boyfriend said: "stop being friends with them" I would have told him where to go... as it stands the friend that told me I had to make the choice learned fast that the choice was made against her. the one that issues the "don't talk to them" ultimatum is the one that gets not talked to in my book
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