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writes:Hi, my mates girlfriend is coming to visit him in a week (she lives in another city) and we are going clubbing when she comes, she is bringing her mate with her to set her up with me (just for a one night stand), now I'm just a bit anxious as I think I have a small dick, I have lost my virginity, I lost that with no dick related problems, but I'm scared that my penis won't be enough to satisfy this girl, its 6" in length and about 4.75" girth (I'm not to sure about the girth) is that enough? i just don't want to be a disappointment that is all... thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 June 2013):
 Has this young lady already agreed to have sex with you? I mean to me it sounds like she's coming along so you have a date not necessarily someone to have sex with.
as far as measuring up should she agree to sex... for me your size would be fine and I'd be more concerned about your oral skills being up to snuff.... (now you can worry about that instead of the size of your dick)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 June 2013):
 When I read these posts I always wonder where you guys get it from.
Oh yeah, she'll be terribly disappointed, she was expecting a horses dick for her one night stand, don't every woman?
Seriously, unless your friend was bragging about how well hung you are there's no way she'll be disappointed. For the record, women don't really like big dicks... We very much prefer average. And the smaller size of average is much more preferred by most as it allows for more positions and fun. I mean the vagina is NOT enormous!!! We can't fit anything in there! And if you actually took the measurements of any dildo and vibrator, you'd see that they are on the smaller side of the average penis size. Especially in length, who cares about length, no woman I know. It's all about the girth and the shape/curve. Beyond the first 3 inches of a vagina we don't really feel much..! Bet you weren't aware of that. Which makes a long penis complete waste of tissue, as an 8 inches long will not feel the slightest more pleasurable than a 4 inches long penis. In fact, 8 inches wont fit into most women, so the man can't push all the way in! Now what good is that, other than showing off in the mens locker room?
No dear you, it is very much all about the motion of the ocean, and not the size of the boat. Your one night stand certainly wont give a crap about your size as long as you're able to get it up and in. No one expects much out of a one night stand, they're all crappy sex no matter who you have it with, as they are so limited.
So, NO worries. But try to find a girlfriend instead, sex is so much better when you are with someone steady who you've got feelings for. One night stands are so mechanic and boring in comparison, you barely get any fun out of them.
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reader, MsSadie +, writes (23 June 2013):
 Only she can decide that. The measurements you listed are average, so I don't see a big (no pun intended) issue.
It's just a one-night stand anyway.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (23 June 2013):
 Hello
You don't have a small penis. It's average. You are more likely to disappoint her if you forget about/ rush through foreplay ...
And yes, be safe and wear a condom.
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (23 June 2013):
 6" is actually average size so you're fine :) and remember, the tightness of a girls vagina doesn't determine whether she was a good one night stand or not. Sex in the one night stand context is about positions and angles that push your penis against her in the right way. Be confident about your body including downstairs and use more than your dick to please her! Size isn't the issue, it's a lack of creativity and exploration! It's not how big the tool is, it's how you use it ;) and don't forget, you have hands for a reason - put them to good use! A woman's whole body is sensual :)
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