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writes:How do I gain my boyfriend's trust again? 4 days ago I took $80 out of his account without asking.when he found out he was pissed. He told me that he does not want to talk until I refund his money back.well I explained why I did it he then told me to give him some time. I'm going to give him 2 wks but after that what's next?
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reader, Happivibes  +, writes (22 August 2008):
 you have betrayed his trust, lied and stolen his money. It would seem that he is deeply upset. you don't say how long you have been together, if only a short time I think you have blown it, but if your relationship is enduring he may come round as long as you pay him back. give him the space he requires but find a way of repaying the cash asap. good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 August 2008):
Well you'll just have to wait and find out what he feels like in 2 weeks.
If you tried to contact him to ask but couldn't get hold of him and it was an emergency - or had previously told you that you could take money out of his account then he may forgive you.
If you just took the cash then he is going to have trouble trusting you because you STOLE from him.
You don't give many details so I think you should just pay him back the cash, give him time as he asked and hope for the best.
Good Luck!! xx
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