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writes:heyIve been with my bf for over 3 months now but i allways feel he deserves better. Im nothing but a nightmare. And when he told me he fancies this girl i know, its made me feel so awkward because i know shes alot more worthwhile than me. I just feel like hes going to dump me becuase he felt this way. And this girl found out that i feel ths way and shes really upset about it. I feel awful. people say Im not in the wrong, but I feel like I am. I think my boyfriend is going to dump me because hes probably furious with me although he says he's not. and he sayd he loves me.please tell me what to do. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Alj +, writes (23 June 2008):
Firstly i would like to say that you must be worthwhile otherwise he wouldnt be with you in the first place
I really think that you need a confidence boost try this Stand in front of a mirror and write down on post-its all the amazing things about you and stick them around your mirror
You need to stop thinking that your not good enough for this guy because he will start thinking this to!
Show his How amazing you are!
He cant fancy the other girl that much as he would have just left you ther and then for her
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 Hon, the best thing for you to do right now is to think of yourself as the best thing that has ever happened to him.
You also want to pay particular attention to yourself and not let yourself go because of the way you are feeling.
Keep putting on makup and dress well. And even if you don't feel like it, smile.
This positive reinforcement will do wonders for you and your attitude and it will definitely show through.
You may be quite surprised at the outcome.
However, especially at your age there will be a likelyhood of tried and failed relationships.
Now, mind you I am not saying in all cases. But be prepared for that eventuality in the event that it does come along.
And if so, you will get through it as so many others before you.
But that is what relationships are until you get it right, all trial and error.
Sometimes you get it right the first time. Most times not. Doc
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reader, elinec26 +, writes (23 June 2008):
 i think you need to up your self-esteem. im pretty sure youre an awesome person, you just gotta find out what makes you awesome. and until then can you have a normal relationship. i mean, you guys have only been together for 2 months and he's talking about another girl already. from what i know, once a guy starts talking about a girl other than you (in a special way, not like with his friends) then thats one of the signs that hes desperate for YOU to end it so he doesnt have to..
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