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anonymous
writes:Ok so me and my bf have been dating for 13 months,everything was perfect, I love him dearly and still do. But the past couple weeks we would just be arguing about stupid things, and it just continued. So last week we went out and everything was perfectly fine, than all of a sudden he doesnt call me at night like before and I would just get worried. But he didnt even act like I was his girlfriend, he always claimed he was tired from work which I understood, but it doesnt mean you treat me like im not your girlfriend. Then finally I told him, I was like whats going on why are you acting like you dont care about me anymore, hes like ive been tired, im like well it doesnt mean you have to take it out on me, I was like I want my boyfriend back the one I fell in love with, than he is like I am just so tired from all the arguing, and im like ok well lets fix it, hes like well we do than it happens again, im like well lets just try fixing it, than he is like I dont know, im like you dont know what. Hes like i dont know, im like dont you want to fix it or not, hes like I dont know what I want anymore.so I flipped out, I was like so you have been telling me this whole time you love me when you dont, he is like I do love you, then im like obviously you dont you sont since you dont know what you want. Than later I kept on calling him, than he finally called back, I asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted me, so everything was fine. Then the next day he still acts the same way, so I just kinda let it go until that night where I wanted to call but he didnt respond to my text, so I sent him again, I miss my old bf, you need to start acting like before, than I wake up in the morning he sent me why are you mad now, im like I want you to start acting like my bf, and hes like well I dont feel the same way like before, than hes like I do want to be with you but I need some time to myself, im like time to yourself okay, then I was like I dont do breaks, so than I was like ill just give you your stuff back, and hes like dont want it, im like me neither, and the last thing I sent him was do you love me, and I guess guess we broke up, but he never responded. I need to Know if you guys think he will come back to me since he said he still wanted to be with me, what should I do, im sooo depressed I really love this guy and today has been terrible :( I need advice and I need to know if you think he ll come back? :((
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): WWell I gave him 4 days like no texting or nothingg, but my friends told me to text him and tell him how I feel, and ask him if he wants me to wait or should I move on?! So im just waiting to see what he sayss :/ seese
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reader, jasmin12e +, writes (13 September 2010):
I know exactly how you feel, my boyfriends doing almost the same thing, he says he needs time try and give him the space, it's hard I know but just try. Don't text or call unless he texts you, don't have sex or do any sexual stuff he asks. Just give him the space and if he doesn't come back, move on.
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