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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Dont take what quiet echo says too seriously. If you read up you will realise that if you was female,then it would be a case of the other being insecure and trying to control your life.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 You hurt her and destroyed her trust, maybe her love dried up maybe it didn't but if the trust is gone you've a long road ahead of you to build that trust back up. Trying to dismiss or minimize your actions is totally the wrong way to go with this Buddy. Give her some time then see if you two can discuss whether she would be open to giving you a second chance to prove yourself.
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reader, tby1  +, writes (14 December 2010):
tby1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question the point is quiet echo, my life, her life, all our kids lifes and our family and friends shouldnt have to be destroyed cos of afew silly texts and emails. so if she really did love me it wouldnt matter so much, if i had physically done wrong id hold my hands up and do as she said.
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reader, tby1 +, writes (14 December 2010):
tby1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your replys. i know she loved me with all her heart. i think i am her only love infact im sure i have been, but now she is having nothing to do with me and its killing me. all over some stupid flirting thru emails and texts and afew other issues. im living my life now olyy in the hope that she wakes up and realises she loves me still and this hurt and anger she is going thru will piss off
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reader, loveistheanswer +, writes (14 December 2010):
 I think it depends on the nature of the relationship and it depends on the woman too... time heals many wounds though, luckily.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 No. Luckily. Life has a perpetual,forceful forward flow.
Some people resist it because they want to cling to the past. But eventually life is stronger.
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reader, Shumillicious +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Yes, i've been with 5 guys after my ex but i still have strong feelings for him even though were not in contact anymore. I think about him constantly but bare in mind - not all girls are like that
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (14 December 2010):
Sometimes...but then sometimes you move on and your feelings change. The feelings you once thought you would always have start to fade away with time, especially if you don't keep in contact or if things have somehow gone downhill with whatever kind of relationship you had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): I would assume so. I dont know much, only from my experiences.
But i do say yes i believe so. After 5years of not dating adnd almost 5 moths of dating, i still and always will have feelings for who my sweetheart is.No matter what, and it has always been that way.
I do think that there will be at some point in a womens life a man that has a special part in her life or her heart.Maybe either because that person has been through a lot with her or she really cares for the guy because he has a very troubled life and she remembers way back when.
I have not read your previous questions, so you know.
xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): I think that time is a healer. Yes there is always that certain someone who makes our head spin or knees feel weak. There is an attachment maybe coz we were involved with him or cause we always crushed on him. But with time you move on given that the one you are with is treating you so well that u do not even need to recall that other special someone. Soon enough the one who loves u much becones the one u love much :-)
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Maybe for some reason.
I think that's something you only really see in Romcoms though.
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