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writes:a few weeks ago i was on facebook, talking to my guy friend (who i really like) and trying to get him to visit me before i left town for the rest of the year. i really wanted to see him because i hadnt seen him for like a month and he had been asking me when we were going to see each other.it was like 6:00 in the evening and when i asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said it was getting late and that he was tired from pulling a double all nighter at his friends house and didnt feel like walking the 10 minute walk from his house to mine. i offerd to buy him some redbull to keep him awake but he refused to have me spend money on him.i think i was too desperate to see him and asked him to visit me a few to many times because suddenly he stopped replying for like 30 minuted and then when i appologized for being to pushy he just replied "mmk".after that i closed the chat and he stayed online for around 3 more hours.for the next week i tried apologizing but he didnt reply. and the week afer that(this week) i just didnt even bother.its really been bugging me that hes mad at me so much that hes ignoring me. like, REALLY been bugging me, so much that i almost cried...i left the province 2 weeks ago and wont be back until next summer, and i absolutely refuse to call him because i dislike talking on the phone. oh, also hes ignoring my text messages.so is there any way that i can apologize to him over the chat that he might actually reply to?
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 The first thing you need to do is stop apologizing to him. You may have seemed pushy, but it's nothing to apologize repeatedly for. It comes across as being clingy, which is what might have turned him off.
I don't think he's mad at you, it seems he's simply not interested and doesn't know how else to make that clear. Back off for a while, let him be the one to contact you first. If he doesn't, then he wasn't much of a friend, was he?
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