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Why the personal questions about my body? Does he have feelings for me?

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Question - (31 October 2016) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2016)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have this best guy friend, I have feelings for him, everyone swears he has feelings for me. Last night when we were talking (which we do almost every day) he started asking extremely personal questions about my body. I asked him if he had been thinking about this for long, and he said "oh, not that much." The conversation went on for over an hour, but at the end he told me it meant nothing, that nothing had changed between us and that he just wanted to see how I would react if he said these things.

Do guys really do this or is he hiding something? Is it possible he has feelings for me?

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A female reader, Eagle'sfan1986 United States +, writes (16 November 2016):

I think he just wants to see if he can take advantage of you if all he can think about is your body and not your mind at all. Don't answer the questions next time he does that. Change the topic and talk about somethng. I don't think all guys are like that way at all. My bf respects me alot when we email each other he doesn't ask me about my body or what I am wearing underneath my clothes at all. Your friend might be playing the teasing game with u.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (3 November 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntNo I don't think he has feelings for you, my guess is that he knows you like him, so he is testing you to see how far you would go with him. He is wondering maybe if he could get some no strings attached fun. If he had feelings for you he would ask you questions about you and take you out to get to know you better.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 November 2016):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think he has deep feelings for you either. He ASKED you about your body, not your feelings or your mind.

And OP, you HAVE the right to NOT answer questions you deem inappropriate.

He wanted to see how you would react. That to me makes me think he is testing your boundaries, not exactly respecting you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2016):

To be honest I dont think he has feelings for you but probably he wouldnt mind sleeping with you if he has the chance because when you have feelings for someone you dont go asking very personal questions about their body.

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