A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:im a lesbian in a relation ship of 5 yrs,and im flirting with another lesbian in a 11yr relation ship she doesnt love her partner and says she wont leave her they dont have sex anymore so why is she flirting with me?
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reader, love wife  +, writes (23 April 2012):
my friend, she has no problem to leave you without prior alert as she used to . you do not have to do what the others want you to . be clear with your self , and ask your mind and soul , good luck
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 The real question is -- why are you being disloyal to your partner of 5 years? What does it matter if she's flirting with you or not? You have two feet and can walk away.
If you're unhappy in your current relationship, then you either put some effort into making it work, or you end it. but you do not bring and introduce a third party and let relationships overlap. That just makes a mess and causes a lot of pain.
Likewise, the woman in the 11 year relationship is a cheater. Why would you be attracted to someone who cares nothing for going behind her partner's back and soliciting someone else? You can't have a healthy relationship without trust, and she's destroying your trust before you're even together, just like you'll destroy the trust of your partner if she ever finds out that you're entertaining thoughts of cheating.
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