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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I don't have an issue, I'm just curious to know what's going on. So there's this guy at my school, I'm my class infact that claims to like me. So we were chatting and he said he has liked me for a long time and wants to kiss me (and he asked me out). Today when I got to school, afew girls I knew (friends of mine) started talking about how he had confessed his love for them and asked them out aswell, as he did with me. I'm no heart sore because I find this entire situation so hilarious. The only difference between me and my friends is that he acts all shy around me, which is weird because he is usually so bubbly and always making jokes, that somehow changes in my presence as of recently. I find this whole thing so very funny. We all do. But there's still that curiosity as to why he is doing all of this you know? I think I should speak to him to find out what's his problem because this is just too weird and everyone is looking at him as a joke. This is foolish of him. Should I ask what's up or should I just keep on keeping on?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 January 2013):
 Just ignore him. IF you ask him it feeds into it.
IF he amuses you, let it be.
It's not weird... he wants to kiss someone... he doesn't care who.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): Let him carry on because he is being fake and sneaky and he is obviously trying to play you so let him carry on and make a fool out of himself and you never know it might put him off acting like that again.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): "But there's still that curiosity as to why he is doing all of this you know?"From a guy old enough to be your grandfather: a horny teenage guy will say anything he thinks a teenage girl wants to hear in hopes of getting into her pants. He's acting differently around you because he apparently believes you go for the shy quiet tyoe so he's putting on the face and act that he thinks will elicit the response for which he's hoping from you."Should I ask what's up or should I just keep on keeping on?"Don't ask what's up unless you want to hear another load of hilarious BS. Your friends and you have exactly the right attitude in laughing it off, but you'd be surprised at how many females of all ages are so desperate for male attention that they're willing to believe anything a guy tells them. I'd say for the meantime just play along and don't take him seriously, hopefully it won't take him too long to realized he's been had all along.
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