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female
age
36-40,
* carly
writes:Hi i need sum advice on this relationship i have been in for a year now things have gone really heartbreaking for me,he completely changed,few months ago he leaves for the festives.and he calls bt he sounds distant not the as he usually is, so right afta that i find out he is cheating on me,and then i leave him and, 4 months after he decides to come back asking for forgiveness i take him back but less than 3 weeks he goes and does it again, and i believe with same girl as before,now iam hurt and confussed again wht should i do?how can i deal with this? The truth is that i cant let go of him and our past,mostly because he keeps calling me,and i always expects him to call even if he is still with the chick,i havent been dating,and he seems to be happy,how do i move on with my life?
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reader, Rainbow111  +, writes (4 June 2012):
Concentrate on yourself. He's no good! Like i say, out with the old, in with the new! I know how painful a breakup can be! I deal with it by planning my next couple of days out and just concentrating on myself. It's not gonna be easy but it just has to be done! I feel changing my appearance (not in a low self-esteem way) helps alot! Makes you feel like a new person! Plus he gets abit paranoid when he sees you've been making improvements and he's not! If you've not already started the gym, then do it now! It kills some time and takes your mind off the breakup. Even go out with your friends more often, have the girls come around yours and have movie nights in etc. At the moment in time, you will feel vunerable towards men. Don't let this catch you out! You don't want to be making any silly mistakes! Although having a guy to talk to, who you can trust about your personal things is handy. You need to bin all those memory things you have of him aswell. Change your number, delete any photos and just focus on your daily plans. Before you know it, your day was so busy you've not had any time to even think of him! But he's awfully no good and sure doesn't deserve a woman like you trailing after him and this girl!
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