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writes:Why is he doing that? I feel really hurt:(?So I've liked this guy for a while now.He's friendly and chatty with everyone else but when it comes to me he's really quiet , awkward and doesn't talk that much.He asked what I was doing and I said I was going to have dinner with a guy friend of mine cause he thinks I'm a nice guy and he'd like to take me out and get to know me.Anyway, he kept asking questions about the other guy and our date plans and I told him.Today when I he saw me he came over toucked my hand and just turned his attention to the lady next to me and totally me. he couldnt keep his eyes off her. and he made it so obvious. He got her a refil of her coffee and just kept starring at each other. But there was this guy there and I kept watching him too and my crush kept looking at what I was looking at but he didn't acknowledge me at all and only looked at me when I wasn't looking.What kinda game is he playing? Seriously. I was so embarrassed today. I feel really hurt aswell:( I like him so much is hurting me and now I don't know anymore:(I'm 23 and he's 25.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (8 May 2013):
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Why are you playing games with him, if you like him then why tell him you have a date with a guy who 'thinks your nice and wants to get to know you'.
Just telling him you were going out for dinner with a friend would have been enough.
As for him talking to another woman, an older one, so what, he is allowed to, it probably has nothing what-so-ever to do with the dinner date you told him about.
Just ask the guy out for lunch next time you see him, it's no big deal, he can either say yes or no thanks.
Only then will you know if he wants more than just a casual friendship with you.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (8 May 2013):
 1. you told him that you were going on a dinner date with another guy - he likes you and you are now rubbing it in his face that you are going out with other men.
2. the other woman - he was trying to make you jealous by showing her some attention.
I suggest that if you like this guy enough, ask him out for coffee/lunch/dinner and tell him how you feel.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (7 May 2013):
 If you told him another man was going to have dinner with you, then the first one (the one you like) probably thought you were going out on a date. were you?
PARTICULARLY if you told him your friend thinks you're a nice "guy"(??)and wants to get to know you better.
Seems as if somebody is playing games - and I don't know if its you, or your "crush".......
Perhaps next time you see him on your own you could invite HIM out to lunch or for a coffee. That will show your interest and he can either accept the invitation or not - which will show HIS interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't tell him about the other guy to make him jealous.. I said it cause he asked.
P.s the lady in question is older than him.
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