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female
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30-35,
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writes:My guy friend still isn't talking to me! I haven't been texting him in a week and I saw him today at school. He walked by my classroom but he doesn't do it often. i'm sad that we had to be apart. He talks to me a little when were on the bus but every once in a while I see the flirting guy he used to be with me. I don't get whats going on with him? He knows that if theres a problem he can talk to me because I tell him. I wrote to him on myspace and he just read it no answer back. i really want to text him badly and have our usual night time talks till I get tired then he used to say goodnight to me. I thought it was sweet. It was like a relationship type of friendship but now its different totally. I think he still has feelings for me because I can sense it when were together. So why is he acting like I don't exist and that he doesn't want to talk to me?Need some advice! Thank You
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Have you been the one to always initiate things? If so, maybe he hasn't really noticed. I'm always careful to make sure things are a two way street. Sometimes if you are always the one to call or text, it's obvious that they are always on your mind and it can be quite disturbing that when you don't, how little on their mind you really are. I hope that's not the case but it could be. One sided relationships aren't that fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Something made him uncomfortable and he's backing off. He probably just considered you a friend but it's possible he got the impression you wanted more and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings so instead, he's letting his actions do the talking. The more needy you act for him, the more he'll avoid you. Just give him space and spend time talking to your other friends. Hey, about finding someone to date? Maybe when he sees you are into someone else and not him, he'll feel non threatened and start talking to you again.
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