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Why has she not answered my text message?

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Question - (13 August 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2007)
A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I recently asked a girl out on a date and we had a great night. We exchanged emails every day for a week, she then asked me out and had another great time. No kissing but laughing and loads in common. She went on holidays last Thursday and I sent her a text message.

I've heard nothing back and no call. I know she went away on her own to relax and forget about work, but I'm wondering why not even a little message!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007):

thanks for the replies, she's back and all is well, even better than well!!

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A male reader, Zim United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2007):

Zim agony auntNot necessarily. Sometimes mobiles still ring even if they are turned off. The ringing goes through to the voicemail sometimes. Still, if her phone was on, she should now know that you tried to call so she should contact you when she gets back. Do you know when she gets back?

ZIM

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007):

I called her phone with my ID turned off to see if it rang and yes it did! Just worried she has gone all cold. Guess I will have to wait till she gets home!

But it's the old story really isn't it: If someone doesn't contact you it means they don't want to?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007):

She's on holiday and probably only uses her phone as an alarm clock. She may have forgotten the charger or if she remembered it there could be a different voltage!!

When you know she's back home give her a call - unless she calls you first!

Phil

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007):

thanks for the answer but she does have her phone with her.

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A male reader, Zim United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2007):

Zim agony auntIs she on holiday abroad? If so, (Or even if she's in the same country) she might have left her mobile behind. Some people want to leave everything behind them on holiday so they leave their phone behind as well. Believe me, I know people who do this.

So relax then. When she gets back, ask her how the holiday was and then ask her out again. Right at the end of the date, I would attempt a light kiss. Sometimes people expect a kiss at the end of the date, especially the third one otherwise they begin to think that you only have platonic interest in them. However, not kissing a woman on the first date is still seen as being very chivalrous to those that remember. It shows that you care about her as a person and not just because of her looks.

Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

ZIM

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