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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So me and this guy used to talk. We went out for coffee once and it was okay. After a couple of days we stopped speaking all together. Well I stopped speaking to him because it was just me instigating the whole conversations and I gave up at that point. This was in August. Now in December he sparked up a conversation and he said 'I haven't spoken to you in time! Missed you :)' did he really miss me xD I replied saying 'Hahaa we should talk more often then' We were talking about applications to uni and colleges and stuff. Then it was around 2am and we both decided it was late and time to sleep. He said 'Goodnight sleep tight and no bad dreams yeah and I will speak to you tomorrow' I replied saying 'haha hopefully not ;) and okay night night' Now I relised that he may think I said hopefully not to him speaking to me? but i meant it to the bad dreams bit? Why has he suddenly come back? Is he interested or not? Please help :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 June 2012):
 Relax , he should be really thick to not get what you actually meant .
And chill for the moment, it's too early to say. "Interested or not interested", it's a little too black or white , either/or. He probably is neither terribly interested, otherwise he would not just have let it go so soon after your first meeting, nor completely uninterested, otherwise he would not even have contacted you again.
Probably at the time he was distracted with other stuff, - and very probably with other dates - now the distractions have ceased and he's putting feelers out and " seeing what happens ".
If you want to give it a second try and see if this time you connect more, I suppose there's nothing wrong with it. But don't get all overexcited, because likely right now he has no specific plans or intentions about you in mind .
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