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writes:I want to remain in contact with my ex- we finished 4 weeks ago. We were talking regulary still but not as much but in the last week or so its became even less- which upsets me. I miss him. I miss the conversations we used to have. He just clearly doesn't want to be with me so I asked him if he had any single guy friends for me and he didn't reply. Why? Does he care? or does he not want to pass me to his mates coz he thinks I'm a pain and doesn't want them to endure it too? He said he liked talking to me before so I don't know why he is hardly talking to me anymore. He says he's busy but I know thats not true- its a cop out. Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2012): Asking your EX does he have any single guy friends for to date.....does not put you in the best light! You to are no longer in a relationship...so he is trying to move on with his life. No, he does not want you hanging around his buddies...even if he doesn't want to be with you, he still dosent want a constant reminder.
Come on....it not a good look for you to date your ex's friends. Move on with your life & find your own dates outside of your ex's circle.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (28 April 2012):
 WHAT makes you think that your ex- is supposed to be your "matchmaker????"
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (28 April 2012):
 Usually when you break up with someone you don't ever want to see them again. If you're dating one of his guy pals he'll be stuck seeing you every time he wants to hang out with this guy. That just sucks. And let's be honest. You know you're just doing it for spite. No one ever dates a guy's best friend unless they want to do the slam dunk on the guy. It's childish and it will backfire on you. Just move on and find a guy somewhere else in the city to date.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 April 2012):
 Hi
He didn't think it was worth an answer, why would you want to date his mates, just to annoy him,make him jealous possibly?
He doesn't want you knowing what he is up to now he is a free man.
As you have feelings for him it is best not to have contact with him or his social circle, it just prolongs the agony of the split.
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