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writes:all of my friends have been "snogged"/"been with"/"made out with" somebody. i find this kinda frustrating because i'm the only one who hasn't. all of them say that i'm pretty and sexy but i dont understand why nobody likes me. im 13,a little bit chubby, 5ft 4", i have green eyes, dyed dark red hair ( not bright and a bit faded), a few light freckles, a nice ass and big boobs. can anybody tell me why no guys like me???? please help! :(
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 just be patient and build your personality up nicely
some day some guy will realise how great you'll be and you can start your own story
sometimes the best ones come late in life
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reader, NatreeRose  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 ....the last part of that message was cut off, but my ending statement is of course there is nothing wrong with you, everything happens with reason, believe that. Your time will come, and the more you know about yourself, the more likely you will know when the right guy comes along :)
~Natreerose~
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reader, NatreeRose +, writes (13 July 2010):
Be confident in yourself, girl! You are too young to worry about such things :) I didn't start getting into dating until I was 16, and I thank God for that every day. I was also very insecure when I was young (I'm 24 now), and boys NEVER showed interest in me in high school. I knew I was pretty, but was very very shy. Take this time to learn more about yourself and become confident in who you are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): I'm nearly 17 and I've never been with anyone... that's out of choice though. I'd say some of your friends are probably lying. Also if you really want a boyfriend have you considered initiating something, instead of just waiting around? It's possible that guys consider you out of their league if you aren't showing clear interest in them.
+ you sound very pretty based on your description.
Do you really want a boyfriend, or is this about social pressure? If the latter then maybe you just need too develop more confidence.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 July 2010):
I used to ask the same sort of question. I asked all these girls out when I was at school, and got turned down by every single one. I didn't even get my first kiss until I was nearly 17. I'm 22 now, and guess who has the best girlfriend out of all my friends and those I've known. Me :). Take your time. There is no rush to get your first kiss from a guy who will probably have kissed someone else, or who will go on to kiss someone else. Find the right guy once, not the wrong guy twice. Just take your time, be confident, and the right guy will come along.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Its frustrating when you feel that way, trust me, I have. However, its normal for teenagers to not date in their teens just as much as its normal for teenagers to date. I never dated when I was a teenager, I'm 22 now, and right after high school that's when things started happening for me. Things happen at different times for different people. Just be yourself and be confident in yourself. When the time is right for a guy to like you, he will.
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