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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dated a super handsome and very rich guy 5 months ago and I am sure that I got bored with him and the fact that he always spoken TOO politely as if that we are business partner or something and that he said constantly that we weren't match. Last month he suddenly contacted me and asked for another chance to be with me, but again he bored me and ruined the date by talking philosophy and suggesting me to read a book about confidence and how to get out from stress just becoz I didn't respond him well, which offended me SO MUCH. So I told him that we both shouldn't try to do anything with each other anymore and afterwards I came back to my ex and forgot him. But I found out several days ago that this guy I dated met my ex (now my bf) and threatened him to never see me again and kept checking who's guy dare to talk or dating me. Now my bf was so terrified and suddenly COMPLETELY avoiding me.I don't understand what is my dating friend wants? He kept talking bout my flaws but he kept checking me up?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 How many different ways do you suppose we "Agony Aunts (and Uncles)" will tell you to simply chalk this up to a mismatch, and simply leave the guy alone, and ignore him when he approached you?????? I'll be watching for follow-ups...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 March 2012):
 You need to block him like the others have suggested and I would STRONGLY urge you and your BF to file a police report
he's a control freak and he sounds like he's unbalanced.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Block whatever way he contacts you, change phone number, de-friend on facebook, etc....then if he still tries to contact you get the restraining order. And you boyfriend should do the same, BF sounds like a wussy by the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): This man has serious control issues. Its sounds like hes become a bit of a stalker! Your boyfriend would do well by reporting this incident of threats to the police. You should also log your concerns about him also with the police. Maybe the guy will back off if the police have a word with him. If you have no luck there then maybe you should ask the police for a restraining order.
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