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Why does she text me and say she misses me but she won't go out with me?

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Question - (3 November 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2013)
A male United States age , *TW-confused writes:

I've known this woman for 15 years. She texted me and says that she misses me. I asked her out, I have tried calling her. All I ever get each day is a text message saying good morning and that she misses me. I should just walk away. She doesn't go out with me and says she doesn't have time to talk with me. Why the text every day and why she doesn't have time to spend together. Don't understand her at all. Any lady out there with some good advise?

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A male reader, RTW-confused United States +, writes (3 November 2013):

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Thank you very much for your replies. I felt I should just walk away, just needed to hear it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013):

I agree with Honeypie, it does not make any sense at all if she sends you a text but has no time to meet with you. Is she really that busy??? I apologize in advance and I might be wrong BUT is it possible she is just being friendly or is possible she is keeping you on the back burner and keeping in touch in case she has no one else to date. There is no doubt she likes you and likes the idea of keeping in touch.

I think you should ignore her daily text and do not respond for a couple of days and see what happens. I hope this works for you, good luck, you seem to be such a nice guy. All the best

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 November 2013):

Honeypie agony auntI have to agree it makes no sense, but here is my guess.

She texts you every morning because she LIKES the IDEA of a relationship of having you in her little fantasy, that YOU are her man whom she misses. In reality she doesn't want a relationship.

Why she doesn't have time to talk, again that would mean fantasy would be superseded by reality.

OR IT could be she thinks she is just being a "friend".

When you say you have known her for 15 years, in what way? Friends? Acquaintanceship? dated?

If you want a lady to date, talk to and so forth, that one isn't it. I would stop wasting your time on her.

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A female reader, Brokenv Canada +, writes (3 November 2013):

I find it strange too. I understand you know her for 15 years but is she in a relationship and she is keeping you on the side?

I would walk away. You are wasting your time. Don't respond to her. She is playing with you.

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