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writes:Well, to start I met this girl and she is 19 and I am 33. We started dating kind of, after around two weeks or so she told me she is having trouble with the age gap.We still like each other but she wants to be friends for now, but I'll miss holding her and kissing her.Help me what can I do?
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Well you cant force her to feel the same way, especially if its the age gap that she has a problem with. Have you talked to her about it? I suggest really talking to her, tell her how you feel. I wish you all the best love. xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): There isn't anything you can do. She doesn't want to be with you and I can't really blame her. She is still a teenager and you're in your mid thirties. She probably wants to date around and experience life. You shouldn't even be her friend b/c you're going to see her with another guy at some point and you're going to be hurt. I also can't help but to wonder if you actually cared about her, or if you just liked the physical aspect and the fact that she's so young and attractive? You should just move on, and try to date people who are at least in their mid twenties from now on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2007):
 Generally, you can't do much when a girl just wants to be your friend. In this case, I'm sorry to say that she does have some substance to back her wish. The age gap is very large, but I expect the "life experiences gap" to be much larger. I think you'll have to move on.
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