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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband told me he wants us to move to Los Angeles, but I want to stay where we are - as it's nice and we've been where we are now for 3 years.Also, I've started a new job locally, and have only been in it for 4 weeks now. I'd probably lose touch with family and friends if we did this move.I've tried to discuss it with him, but he just is insistent that we up sticks and move to Los Angeles.However, I'm more worried about WHY he wants to do so -when I ask him why he says it's not important, we don't need a reason for everything.Isn't this a bit of a gamble to be taking?? and a very big one at that??btw, if it's of any help, I'm from Staffordshire in England.cheers, Dawn Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (1 June 2007):
 i have to aggree with the previous poster in a relationship/marriage you have to be totally open and honest with each other and you need to know 100% the reason he wants to move and suggest that you are not prepared to move until you know why.
Good luck.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Well tell him your not going anywhere unless he explains why he wants to go. Then after that you both can weigh out the options.
My parents used to move alot and people do just want a bit of a chance for no reason.
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