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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why does my cousin treats her man this way? is so sad? My cousin treats her boyfriend really badly. She actually treats him like her slave. He's not allowed to talk to other girls. She's constantly arguing with him. She's dumped him a million times already but he goes begging her back. They've been together for 8 years now.She's horrible. She's hides her relationship from some people almost as if she's ashamed of him. My cousin is an average looking girl and her personality is disgusting. I don't know what he sees in her.Everyone talks about how badly she treats her man, but he worships the ground she walks on wtf? My cousin won't listen to advice.Cos she knows he loves her she acts like a total *****.I'm a nice girl and I would never treat my guy like that. I don't fancy him. He's not my type and I'm not jealous I just feel pity for him.
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reader, Uncle_Unsparing  +, writes (5 February 2012):
"Why does my cousin treats her man this way?"
She's a domestic abuser who thinks she can get away with abusing him and he's a domestic abusee who lets her get away with abusing him.
Nothing you can say or do to convince either party to change their behavior. Must be difficult to witness first-hand, but again nothing you can say or do.
It is very sad and far too common, just read the posts here, overwhelming majority from dumped-on doormats unwilling to face reality and waiting for abusers to magically "change" into loving, respectful, responsible human beings, just like cousin's bf is probably doing.
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reader, Latti +, writes (5 February 2012):
MYOB...Mind your own business! I know you maybe concerned about him, but he is a grown man & when he gets good & tired of her treating him like crap...the world will know. He'll walk away...until then...pray for him & stop putting your cousin's business in the street.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 February 2012):
 Why do you care so much about what goes on in your cousin's relationship? How does it affect you? There's nothing you can do about it, so why worry so much?
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