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Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face?

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Question - (2 June 2008) 19 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *uttie1984 writes:

Why does my boyfriend want to cum on my face?

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (21 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntIt's just an intimate sharing of fluids..kinda like how you probably feel while he likes your lower lips and tastes your inner most fluids...same sort of turn on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008):

It has nothing to do with porn....people have been doing this sort of thing for hundreds of years, I would not assume just because you didn't think of it that someone must have gotten the idea from porn...thats kind of laughable....porn gets it's ideas from real life....

I would imagine that he wants to cum on your face because it's a turn on for him. The real question is can it be a turn on for you, if so then keep on truck'n, if not then can you bare with it? If so make it an occasional thing, if you can't bare with it then don't do it, it really is that simple.

This is a partnership between you two, if you have something you want done then ask, if he doesn't want to then make it a trade ( he does what you want and he get's to cum all over your face ) that's what life is about sweetie

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

To tell you the truth, I don't know why my wife and I do that. We both think it is fun, but we don't do it very often. She likes to see herself in the mirror after I'm done and I like to see her also. I don't think it is a dominance thing though, as I don't have any feeling of dominance.

I just asked her why she likes it and she said that it is just a turn-on for her. She has no idea why. She said it is the same kind of turn on for her as swallowing. They both are exciting for her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

It's porno and hot. He's a guy. Do the math honey.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

He probably wants to do it because its probably a fantasy of his and he most likely got the idea from a porno.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntAs soon as I read the title I thought "eewwwww!"

Not for me, so I suspect not for you either if you are asking about it.

Don't feel obliged to do stuff if it doesn't feel right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

Thanks cutie for the update, as most of us have said, it's your choice, no one can tell you if it's right or wrong, you done it, if you want to do it again/refuse to do it, it's your choice and there's nothing wrong with that.

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A female reader, cuttie1984 Canada +, writes (3 June 2008):

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cuttie1984 agony auntIm sorry, I am new to this... that is why I didnt give you my opinion... :P

I did it the one time.. and I didnt really know how I felt about it... and thought that if I asked others what they thought that I could understand why he liked it.

It was different... but I just wanted to know what people thought the reason for him doing it was... if that makes any sense... Thanks ALL

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

"Because the purpose of this site is to give opinions" A female reader, anonymous

Is it? I thought it was Dear Cupid, a site which provides relationship advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Oh yea, forgot to say, if your boyfriend eats a good healthy diet, his sperm will be full of vitimins and proteins. This is necessary because the sperm needs to be healthy to produce healthy children. Some women report that sperm is wonderfull for the complextion and produces glowing, youthfull skin.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

"She didn't tell us her opinion on it, so why should you."

Because the purpose of this site is to give opinions, I reckon. And I clearly stated that that was MY opinion. Nowhere did I tell the asker of the questions what her opinion should be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Sorry, forgot to answer your question. Why does he want to do this. Probably a form of possive primative behaviour. Like animals biting one another or marking their partner. If you want to try it then do, if not then don't. On the whole I class this as advanced sexual practice and probably not something that everyone would feel comfortable with.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Dear miss female reader, anonymous,

You find it disgusting, so don't do it.

Who knows what this lady thinks, she asked a question about why her boyfriend wanted her to do it. She didn't tell us her opinion on it, so why should you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Because he's watched too much porn and now wants to treat you like his own personal porn slut. It's degrading and disrespectful in my opinion.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (2 June 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI agree with the girls. He's seen this in porn, liked it, and wants to try. If you don't want this, don't do it. I wouldn't find it important.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

guys love it, it's a power thing lol

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A female reader, Dawnie United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

Dawnie agony auntit is just a different sexual act, probably has seen it in a porn movie and wants to try it out. If you are uncomfortable with it, say no.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Maybe he's seen it in a porno!

Or maybe he wants his reminance on you.

I'm not sure.

Ask him!

If you're not comfortable with, it tell him. It shouldn't be a problem... It's not for everyone.

Good Luck. X

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A female reader, zanyraven South Africa +, writes (2 June 2008):

well maybe he sees himself as dominate and you as submissive, this might be a fantasy of his, he might want you to be a 'cum slut', which ever way, if you feel this isnt something you wanna do , find another way for him 2 come, example: on ur breasts... goodluck

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