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writes: My bf talks to my ex knowing it bothers me. I don't know why he's keeping in touch with him after trying to steal me away from him. My main problem is that I feel like garbage. Because my bf basically tries to give me away. Like if I was an object rather than a human of value. He always tells me to give my ex another chance or he will say to have sex with other guys or that he will find me a nice guy. WHY? I understand things get difficult between us, but why does he always give up on me and tries to give me away? supposedly he loves me, he says he does.... HU? i don't understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): Well in light of that bit of information, what are you doing with an old man? If he is doing things like dating a girl that much younger than himself and trying to pimp her out to other men then he has issues.
Like he wants to be a swinger. Like he is addicted to porn perhaps and wants to watch you have sex with other men. I don't know what he wants but what I can tell you is that this is not a healthy person for you to be around.
I don't know why you would put up with someone who would treat you this way...you are in control of your own life so take your power back and kick him to the curb and live your own life.
Perhaps when you figure out who you are and what you want in life then you will attract someone better for you, if you are healthier then men in your life will be too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is he's not a teenager, he's in his 40's. Plus, I don't have a bad reputation and this is the 2nd guy I've ever been with. I have always been extremely careful and never easy. Bros before ho's? They were never friends, he stole my ex's number from my phone a year ago. They had never talked before that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): The truth of the matter is that he just does not love you at all and that is because he does see you as a sex object, he is a hormonal teenage boy....boy being the key word here. If you have sex with boys in high school you get a reputation for being easy. Boys in high school want to have sexual experience under their belt, they care more about impressing their male friends then they do about girls therefore he thinks he is a pimp and he is servicing his friends by using you. He keeps in touch with your ex because they are bros. Bros before ho's.
Sorry, sweetie, you should get away from him and learn to keep your knees together with guys that is if you want their respect and love. They should be earning your trust by just being in your company, you should not be giving your most intimate self away so easily to what ever boy appears to "want" you.
Take care of you.
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