Why does he stay if I do nothing for him sexually?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Why would a guy who never initiates sex want to go on sites and chat 2 other women ? My partner of nearly 3 years isn't that interested in sex well not with me ... He gets Viagra from doctor and takes it but it always feels like it's staged never much build up and when I try 2 touch him he says it's not going to work but we haven't even tried it always ends in him giving me oral sex and that's it over for another week it's like he feels he better give me something but I have seen in his emails he chats 2 other women ...he has been unfaithful before but I'm confused as 2 why if I do nothing for him why would he stay with me ? In the time we have been 2gether he climaxed once and that was in first couple of months he swears he loves me and gets really upset when I say we are finished ...but I don't want some1 who doesn't fancy me ... On the occasion I caught him cheating it was a so called friend of mine he doesn't even like her but knew she would be available for sex as she likes sex a lot he turned up at her door and yes they had sex when I asked if he climaxed I could actually feel my heart ache when he admitted he did so suppose I'm asking does he want me but I do nothing for him sexually and is he always going 2 go after other women cause the trill seems 2 be in getting them into bed then he isn't interested ?

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